Theres a shy guy i like but dont know if he likes me back i think he does but cant be sure all the signals ive picked up so far are hes nervous and awkward round me, remembers things ive said, shows an interest in what i get up to , been sharing stuff eg family, interests etc and he keeps my eye contact. I dont know what to do bout situation
2006-10-15 06:14:34 · 16 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wondering what other signs do i look for? Ive known this guy for year so is going on abit now
2006-10-15 06:51:22 · update #1
Signs seem to point to him liking you, but you'll never know unless you ask. He's probably too shy to come and tell you, so its all on you to make a move. Beware, even if he does like you he might reject you because he's too shy. How do I know? I used to be really shy, I really liked this girl and she actually asked me out, but I was too shy and said no. Huge mistake! Its seems that you're already pulling him out of his shyness by talking, keep on it until he's comfortable with you then maybe he'll actually make move.
2006-10-15 06:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Allen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you - he would probably not be nervious with you if he didn't. Also, he remembers things about you, which is always a good sign. I would suggest asking him to go for a coffee during the day or something - that way it sounds casual. He is probably dying for you to make the first move. If you are too scared to do it face to face, ask him for his mobile number and text him.
2006-10-15 06:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when they tell you, and they will only tell you if you ask them so ask him. All that stuff about remembering and sharing doesn't necessarily add up to he likes me and those aren't necessarily good signs, maybe he was thinking there's that girl who blah blah blah, who initiates at first anyway, does he start or do you, all those factors could be concealing the truth. its out there, just ask and he will tell, ALL.
2006-10-15 06:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation. I haven't been able to tell either but I think you should just ask him if he likes you. What have you got to lose. You could spend a lifetime wondering what if. So go for it.
2006-10-15 06:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by duck12194 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does like you. Take it slow or you'll scare him off. Be casual, ask him if he'd like to get a coffee. Work up to asking him to see a movie or similar with you. The more comfortable he feels with you, the more the chances are that he'll take it further.
2006-10-15 06:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so ask him if he would like to hang out for a while? Go to a movie just walk around the mall, go for a quite walk in the park anything where you two can concentrate on each other.
2006-10-15 06:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking over the net on messanger, you'll be suprised how much confidence it gives you.
That way you can chat and get to know him without all the eye to eye pressure, you'll soon find out if it's 'game on'.
2006-10-15 06:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My nephew fancied somebody yet became too shy to assert. He used to merely gaze on the girl looking kinda lovesick and whilst she caught him looking, he grew to become away all embarassed. no longer uncomplicated to assert whilst they are shy as you dont have plenty to flow on. solid success!
2016-12-13 08:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you have pocked up signals from him is proof that he is interested in you! he is shy remember?he will not give much away,you will have to initiate if you are serious about the two of you.
2006-10-15 07:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does maybe he is waiting for you to make the first move if he is so shy.Be brave just ask otherwise you will never know.
2006-10-15 06:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by grovette22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋