Did she have right to treat husband like a child?

Question

Last night I attended a party where there was a lot of drinking. Suddenly a verbal agruement broke out between my neighbor and her husband. I dont know what it was about, but what happened next did shock me. My neighbor grabbed her husband and swatted him on the behind. Then she made him stand in the corner facing the wall for five minutes. Like me, no one else could believe it. We all kept quiet and minded our own business too. Did she have right to humiliate him like that? After his time out he did seem nicer and was not acting like a drunken fool anymore.

Answer 1

Whether they officially call it that, or just are doing what comes naturally, they are apparently using techniques of Female Domination and male submission. These are consensual lifestyle choices that define roles in the dynamic of their relationship and have set rules and consequences. If you are interested in Female Domination, you can research it online (avoid porn sites, those are simply Professional Dominatrix who are paid to provide a service and have nothing to do with lifestyle D/s or M/s).

This is a lifestyle that keeps a man in his place while defining his boundaries and parameters. He is not being treated like a child, a child has no say so in the parent/child relationship. He has obviously given consent and agreed to abide by those rules and accept consequences no matter how embarrassing. Now its possible that they just simply found this works best for them in their relationship and have no idea what Domination and submission is about.

Either way, its not up to you to judge what happens between grown people as long as it appears to be consensual, which in this case, obviously it is. MYOB.

Answer 2

Baaahhhhh.. tooo funny, I think your making this up! Or they were doing some kind of role playing to prepare for some fun later in the evening. Thanx for the 2 points!

Answer 3

I think she had every right to do what she did. Some men act like big babies when they are drinking. Next time she should change his diaper, take him home and put him to bed. Then come back to the party and look for a real man.

Answer 4

I'm sure if the husband took it their sex life involves humiliation. That or he had a strong, overbearing mother and treats his wife like his mother. But I'm pretty sure they're into some type of kink play.

Answer 5

What rights you refer to?

I am quite sure that their relationship is defined in such a way that this kind of event is mutually agreed to - if not enjoyed. I am not condoning such behavior, but neither am I naive about the many kinks of human behavior.

Answer 6

If that works for them. But it seems out of the norm. He must like being treated that way or he would of protested. Sounds to me like they are a little weird.

Answer 7

You were right to stay out of that crazy sh*t. In a relationship couples know each other best. Maybe he was enbarassing her so she embarassed him. Maybe that's what turns him on. Who knows just leave it alone if it makes you uncomfortable don't invite them over anymore.

Answer 8

Different people act in different ways...I don't think that was the best thing to do. Then again...the husband did what she said, so if he absolutely hated that he might have said something.

Answer 9

Wow. He lets her do it, and she keeps on doing it. No she probably doesnt have a right to do that, but he isn't complaining back? She is obviously the dominating one of the relationship. If it was joke....

Answer 10

This is probably some fetish like dominatrix exploring or u guys got 1 heck of joke played on u, personally I thinks this behavior turns them on.