I still love my ex , we broke up 6 months ago. We were together for 2 years. Then one day she said I was good enough for her and left. To this day I'm confused why she left, I didn't do anything wrong. It hurts every morning when I wake up and she's not beside me, I can't take it. Then I saw her dad and he said that she's pregnant but she hasn't been with anyone, but I haven't had any contact with her personally. I'm so hurt and confused, I don't know what to do?
2006-10-15 05:34:42 · 10 answers · asked by Jared 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
sometimes no matter how much you love someone, your love isn't strong enough to keep a relationship together. she may have loved you, but not been in love love with you, there is a difference. chances are if she is pregnant and has not contacted you as being the father, you are probably not the father. you seem like a very nice person who would have much to offer someone. try to move on.
2006-10-15 06:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey There--
If it were me, I would call her up and talk to her. You need to know if the child is yours or not. Then you need to decide what sort of rold you want to play in that childs life if it is yours. I'd keep the mood kind of calm, and not pressure her too much. If she won't talk to you on the phone, show up at her house in person outta the blue and talk to her.
If the baby isn't yours, cut your losses, and move on because she obviously did. There's always someone else out there.
Hope this helps!
2006-10-15 12:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send her a note, OR, call her, OR go somewhere she goes ( if you can). DON'T stalk her, ONLY do it once. Let her know how you have been feeling. Ask her to come back. Give her flowers or some gift. Tell her You Love Her Very Much. Then leave. If it is meant to be, then she will come back.
2006-10-15 12:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Out on a limb returns 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes girls don't have answers for breaking up with their boyfriends. sometimes, we don't feel that it is working and we just jump out of the relationship.
if she's having a baby, maybe it isn't yours and she felt guilty to lead you on...so she broke it off with you.
you need to find her, you need to talk to her!! find out whats going on...if her dad said that she hasn't been with anyone, that means she's all alone right now. that cant be good since she is pregnant
good luck!!!!
2006-10-15 13:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by camille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you see if you can find a way to contact her so that she can answer any of the questions that you have for her regarding your relationship. I know that when I broke up with my boyfriend I answered any questions that he had for me with our relationship. Now he is moving on with his life and so am I. That's what I would do if I was in your situation.
2006-10-15 12:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Swimming cutie24 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would try to talk to her somehow. I mean if thats your baby ya have a right to know if your gonna be a daddy or not.
2006-10-15 12:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know the child is yours then you should let her have some time to figure out what she feels is necessary for her to do she might be feeling the same way and needs sone time to get her thoughts and feelings in order the best thing to do is wait
2006-10-15 12:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by carslawbrkr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude this is confusing your sentance says was good enough not was'nt so wich is it? if you realy meant wasn't good enough for her *** her the grass is alwys greener on the other side forget her bro the rules of carma is what comes around goes around!
2006-10-15 12:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your to handsome for that kind of treatment. Kiss and hugs.
2006-10-15 12:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by tinamaries43 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so why don't you just go ask her why she left an if its your baby.if its yours she probably thought you would leave her or she was scared
2006-10-15 12:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋