My boyfriend of two years is a really lovely, trustworthy boy but for the past few months we've argued so much and we've broken up, got back together etc etc and there's another boy who is a friend who recently I can't help seeing in 'that' way. i think he is interested and he's also very lovely. I don't know whether my relationship os fizzling out and i should maybe start something new. I'd never cheat on him but the fact i'm looking at someone else means I must be feeling differently now.Do i keep at my relationship with someone i love although we don't seem to be getting along, or has it run it's course and time to move on??? I'm so confused...help!
2006-10-15 05:18:43 · 20 answers · asked by Tara B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i always say an ex is an ex for a reason! if u keep breaking up, it only messes with ur head to get back together!
i know u love each other but its best to quit while ur ahead!
ur interested in someone else now and this is a clear sign of being ready to move on!
i know it will be hard to finish with ur boyfriend for good but why stay in an unhappy relationship just because u get on well some of the time?
u only live once, go with ur instincts. a women's intuition is never wrong! good luck!
2006-10-15 05:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though it has run its course. Most people argue but if you are really unhappy and constantly breaking up and getting back together then you don't have time to sort out why you aren't getting along. You have two choices, 1 just end it, or 2 sit down and have a frank discussion about your relationship. If you talk about it you find the reason to all of the problems, then you can make a more informed choice on what is best for you. You must make the best decision for youself and not worry about how your partner will take it. I don't mean that you should be totaly selfish, but by being honest with him may hurt him now but he will get over it.
2006-10-15 12:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Serenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't a woman just for once finish a relationship without getting Mr Next lined up?
If this guy is so nice, why kick him in the teeth straight away by showing him how little your relationship meant and parade a new boyfriend around in front of him.
I hear time after time women only finishing with a guy when they have somebody to run to, it's just a terrible way to deal with people who might find the process and the fact your dumping them really hard to deal with.
If you want to end this then show some guts and do it alone, not when you have another guy ready waiting the very next day.
2006-10-15 12:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore all that stuff about stand by the man you love. It's a load of ****. If you truly loved this man there would be no question to answer. You would just know that you could not contemplate being with any other man. When you find the one you love, you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt. Follow your heart, that's what it's there for and you will never find true happiness unless you do. I'm not saying that this next guy will be the one, it may take a hundred more, but one day it will happen if you don't waste your life spending time with the wrong guy
2006-10-15 16:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question? Do you really expect total strangers who have never met you or your boyfriend, to provide you with solutions to the problems in your life, based on a brief description of your relationship. I mean why don't talk about whether you career aspirations are being fulfilled, or your dress sense is adequate. I think you need to develop an instinct for common sense.
2006-10-15 12:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by powerball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want the relationship to fail because you want a relationship with this other boy. Is that what you really want? Wouldn't it be better to fix your existing relationship? Would your relationship be better with this other boy? How well do you know this other boy? These are questions you need to ask yourself.
Personally I would only leave a partner if they have been unfaithful. The grass is not always greener and if you findout to late it's near impossible to fix because your boyfriend will not trust you.
2006-10-15 12:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually you are not interested in him anymore, my suggestion is if ya can't work things out, it's best for the two of you to stop waisting each others time, about that other guy, it's not healthy for you to jump into one relationship to another, especially if your not sure what to do with your present relationship, give yourself some time to gather your thoughts, you just might be getting yourself into a worser situation, its best to get to know a person before you get involved, you might not like the outcome of it if you don't.
2006-10-15 12:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by smokin_mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could just be a rough patch and you might be looking at the other guy because of this. i think you should wait and see if things improve. if they dont then move on you deserve to be in a good relationship. if your that confused then leaving him isnt a good idea. wait to see what you want as you might regret it
2006-10-15 15:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont say how old you are, but i would say if you are taking a large liking in someone else, it is only a matter of time before you cheat on your boyfriend anyway, move on, and if it doesnt work out with this other guy, msg me!!!!
2006-10-15 13:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into your heart, you'll know deep down if its worth carrying on or whether to leave him and move on. Trust your heart
take care
2006-10-16 07:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋