2006-10-15 05:12:16 · 21 answers · asked by Little Mark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-15 05:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple answer no.
However you can send both but don't combine the two. I would suggest if you have the money to send some nice flowers in memory of your aunt. And send your Uncles birthday card seperately. IF you can't send flowers you can send a nice card and write something personal like I always love it when aunt and I did this togather.
2006-10-15 12:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by E_E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In short, No. These are two separate events, both need to be acknowledged, however you need to appreciate at this time your uncle probably won't feel like celebrating.
The best way to handle this would be to buy an understated simple birthday card and a separate card to express your sympathies at his bereavement.
Be considerate with your wording when writing the cards.
2006-10-15 12:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by TheOracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really doubt that your uncle is even thinking about is birthday and whether anyone will send him a card. Women are more hung up on birthdays then guys, we really don't care anyway, and certainly the death of his wife would take priority.
2006-10-15 12:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send separete cards and send them on separate days. Try not to do anything that combines these two events. If he combines them in his mind, he may never want to celebrate a birthday again.
2006-10-15 12:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO that is a very bad idea. Just give him a birthday card and a present and tell him happy birthday I love you.
He doesn't need to be reminded on his birthday about the death of his wife he will be wishing she was there enough already.
2006-10-15 12:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Questions&Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a card - maybe more affection in it than usual. Write a separate note to go with it - a short sympathetic one saying you are thinking of him. He will be stunned by his loss - and preoccupied at present - but he would appreciate hearing from you later.
2006-10-15 12:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not combined the two together. His birthday is special and should be a happy time. Do not tie the two together.
2006-10-15 12:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this time of grief I doubt if ur uncle would even want to think of his Birthday !!
2006-10-15 12:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by hailer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- why are you so miser! but two cards and mail it at interval first your consolation card than Happy Birthday card.Be like a rose in his life not a thorn!
2006-10-15 12:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋