I had sex with a guy and he left me after 2 days of doing it and only shows up once a week... when he's drunk or high to tell me he loves me...Was it a mistake? What should I do?
2006-10-15 05:06:08 · 21 answers · asked by Nikki13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first thing gurl sex is dirty wat the hell are u doin havin sex at ur age anyway? i know i know everybody does it , but trust me sex is dirty ugly and a terrible mistake especially at ur age! Move on , go find sum1 you can really an truly fall in luv with that will treat u like a queen and RESPECT u !!! Then make luv with him, theres a big difference between sex and makin luv to sum1 and guess wat u just learned that lesson from the school of hard knocks! The guy is a peice of oops cant say that move on there is guys out ther that will respect u luv u an b there 4 u every moment , I know cuz im that kinda guy!! And I can tell this cuz i speak from experience , u see ive not only been one of those guys, ive also had that same experience with a gurl doin that to me , its not worth it move on doll and u will find true luv an happiness cuz LOVE NEVER FAILS!!
2006-10-15 05:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tim P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you got played. It sounds really messed up, but don't let it get to you. He only comes around when he wants to kick it with you, but don't fall for it. If he doesn't call or come around any other time, then he is obviously a loser who just took advantage of you. But you have to also be careful who you sleep with. Some people will tell you what they think you need to hear, or treat you a certain way until they get exactly what they want. Then everything changes, they flip out on you and start acting completely different than before. Don't go for it, it was a mistake but everyone makes mistakes. You see now that he isn't worth it, so the next time he tries to show up like this, don't let him in, don't even talk to him. He doesn't care about you, so he is not worth your time.
2006-10-15 05:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with him was the mistake.
See him again if you like, but no sex. If he really likes you he will come back, if he really just likes sex, he won't.
If I were you I would ditch him and remember the experience so you don't make the same mistake again!
(Girls - observe nature - I have a rooster on my farm - he will mate with any of the hens a-n-y-t-i-m-e. Does it mean he loves them? No, it means he wants sex!)
2006-10-15 06:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was the sex good for you? Did you plan on marrying him or something? Maybe you wore him out after having two straight days of sex. I think you should either cut him off, or keep him around for a rainy day, and go on with your life, and dont look for a meaningful relationship with guys you pick up while stoned at clubs and bars.
2006-10-15 05:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your into booty calls, that's what you're in....and personally i'd stop and find something better, cause gettin drunk and high can lead to things worse than booty calls, like beatings, or drama, or illegal ****. Mistake? If you wanted to date the fool...eeeeyah. Just a screw? Well...you get what you pay for in this case. So best advice I can give is leave the nastiness alone and go look for something cleaner.
2006-10-15 05:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks your his booty call and the only reason he wanted you was cuzz he knew you were the only gullibe person who would lend your azz to him for free. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but it pisses me off when women like you never learn to have respect for themselves. Get yourself some dignity and when you meet a guy quit opening your legs everytime or he'll leave you after he finishes getting what he wants. If your going to have sex with every single guy you meet you might as well charge em.
2006-10-15 05:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He sees you as an easy outlet. Don't be that girl he tells his buddies about in the bar because when we see you around we just laugh and think about how sad it must be to be used by a jerkoff like him. There are actually good guys out there who would respect you enough to be there all the time. Hold out for one.
2006-10-15 05:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by Raijin78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him all he wants is sex and nothing more!
I know because I have been in that situation, and to keep hanging on and letting him into your life(and bed) will only hurt you more in the long run
2006-10-15 05:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by rimples25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 12:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a prick who obviously only wants one thing. The only mistake you are making now is taking him back, and believing his lies. You should give his hind end a shift kick, close the door and never look back.
2006-10-15 05:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋