my best friend is in jail, and he is really tryin to talk to me and get with me and stuff like that so we are talking but through letters, well he is in bowlin green way up by jefferson city and now his friend is writing me in the same place he is his friend is really sweet and he really thinks we should talk or be pen pals until he sends me a picture and we get to know each other better, then i have tghis friend in jail not to far from where i live and he likes me too, so i don't know and they all get out of jail around the same time i don't know what i should do...someone give alil bit of advice even if you've never had this experience
2006-10-15 05:03:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my advice to you is go with your heart. Who makes you feel comfortable. I met my boyfriend through a friend. My boyfriend is in prison so I know what your going through. thing is and I know this from experience. It will never work writing to inmates. This leads to lots of problems. Some men get territorial about there women and writing more then one especially in the same joint can cause big issues for them to especially when they start fighting and this can lead to more time for them too. I started out writing one man that I thought was good for me and turns out that he was a jerk and sometimes that happens but I guess the best thing that I can tell you from my own experiences is that when your looking for love especially on the inside look for the man that makes you feel complete and gives you attention. It never hurts to have more then one friend but when it becomes more just be careful of having to many at the same time as it does cause issues for them too. Hope what I say helps and if you wanna talk more feel free to email me at dochkosgirl@yahoo.com its always nice to have friends to talk to. as far as not writing to criminals and all that crap girl please. its a society thing the way people look at it and I can tell you that there are great guys on the inside too. people make mistakes in life some get caught and some are still out there so never let what someone that is so close minded say something to offend you. In relationships whats the difference between a men in there and a man out here if they are gonna treat you bad they can do it inside or out. make the choice that is right in your heart not by what society thinks they know about people in prison cause in lots of situations they really have NO clue what they are talking about.
2006-10-15 05:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend always talked to guys that were in jail....and she didnt get anything but raped, preganet with 2 kids and married at the age of 17. I dont think the people you are wanting a realtionship with are the right people to be looking for. For some reason...in all your questions..it has to do with someone loving you. Why don't you take a few steps back look yourslef in the mirror and see what else there is out there. Dont you have any hobbies friends? stop searching for male attention..and start loving yourslef.
2006-10-16 00:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by ev3rlazt3nluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man that's not a jail bird,You'll end up waiting for him for ever,There are alot of good men out there are not jail birds,Keep them both as friends but as a mate find urself some one that's going to be there for you when you need them.Not some one that if some thing happens you must wait until they get out to be by Ur side l know first hand l had to leave my baby's dad because he swore he would never go back Well guess what,l left him because l needed a man that would be there for me when l needed him not one l had to wait for,Good Luck Sweetie been there done that...
2006-10-15 12:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by dolittleboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like what you really need to pick is better friends. Why do they all have to be in jail? Why don't you try for someone a little higher on the evolutionary ladder?
2006-10-15 12:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you just attracted to prison uniforms?? get with someone that has a future that includes them having a real job,real morals,education, and something positive..they want one thing SEX>.and give you what? STDs maybe including aids and/or a baby and then what do you tell your child daddy's in the big house??and he made me sick and you sick and we're dying,etc..look to the future that is somewhere outside of barred windows
2006-10-15 12:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating criminals what are you thinking? Start hanging around people who will take care of you keep out of trouble. There are plent of good guys out there look"bad" if thats why your attracted to them.
2006-10-15 12:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your best friend becuz u kno him better than the rest
2006-10-15 12:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋