I'm 20 and there is 20year I live with my head in the cloud. I can't concentrate on any work such as brush teeth, learning, play badmiton, communication ... general speaking all of action. When I clean the face, I think about a friend; when I learn by heart I imagine I m giving a lecture ... Thus I do every work very slowly . I find difficulty to listen to anyone. (thru my 12 school year, I nearly don't understand any teacher's word then I myself studied at home) And there are many times I have crazy idea that make me be laughed. I always forget closing door, loosing ticket, forget to pick up someone .... I also often do moonstruck things. I have tried to control my mind but my mind wanders anytime anywhere. It make me very hard to accomplish any work, and I am often stressful because of term test. I have gone to the doctor, many doctors give me medicine but they don't make me change. I can't keep my mind on one thing. Help me change my life !
2006-10-15 05:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by trantempo 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Get off yahoo for a start.
2006-10-15 05:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you are smarter then what you think, Or should I say you are not interested in the things others think you should be interested in. I am the same way. If you are in school as you suggest you are. You are stuck with how things are till you can get to a point where you can do what you are interested in.
You have proven that you can think in a complete thought because you explained your feelings very well and you have pointed out how interested you are to fit in with what others expect from you. You want to do better.
Think about where your thoughts take you. Write down the areas of these thoughts and you will find a pattern in your interests. Then start reading or thinking of what kind of work can you do that fills these intelligence flows. This is what you will be good at and will be able to hold your interests.
The norm for most people is buying clothing and what happened in the football game last night or maybe planing what will happen in tonight's game. This is boring stuff to me. Most people create their problems them selves and hearing about it bores the hell out of me. It is normally a no brainier because they can just not do that or it really is not as big of a deal as they are making it out to be.
I my self found I like to control things. This is a very involved thing to control things. You have to learn every aspect of something to know the out come so I had to find what I knew a lot about and work in that area. It is nice when a plan comes together as you planed it.
Just set around in your day dream world for a while and think of what you would like to do. Find it and go for it. It may take a little more school but that should be fun being it is something you want. I think my biggest problem is I can't absorb the info as fast as I want it. People like to drag it out and give details that are not importune which might bore you as well. Too bad you can't just ask and the info is given to you in the form you need it to understand. If you ask or read about something, you have to read how it all started when you just want to know the key points that make it work. You if like me can fill in the blanks if you had the main info.
Good luck and don't feel down on your self. I would think you are smarter then others are or it would not be boring to you. What you are being taught is of no importance to you is why it bores you.
2006-10-15 12:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Don K 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are just not grounded. Your chakras are not balanced. There are alot of information on the internet regarding chakras. You need to go swimming, hiking, cleaning the floor, something that keeps you connect to mother earth. You need to be with nature. Once you established that connection with mother earth. You'll be able to live at the present instead of being half way up there and half way down here most of the time. It is very hard for you. You can't really function in this world if your soul is not integrated fully with your physcial body.
2006-10-15 14:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well guess what? You are not alone. I have this same problem for 39 years. I was flippin out as I read your words. That is so me. You are fortunate to find out early, this way you may be able to help yourself and not let it affect your future as badly as it has mine. Please e-mail me @ isobelmyself@yahoo.com, if you would like my tips and experiences to maybe help you.
2006-10-15 12:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's OK, everyone's like that more or less, you'll get by alright, you're expecting a lot of yourself, you probably just need more sleep. Take it easy.
2006-10-15 12:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sangmo 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋