I'm dating this girl and I think she's great. She's worth introducing to my parents. I constantly think about sex but I know I have to hold back because I don't want to scare her. How long would you wait?
2006-10-15 05:00:17 · 8 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a good question. I think a lot of it has to do with how long you've known her in general, what type of girl she is, and how much experience both of you have. those tpye of things seem to matter to girls the most and if you are willing to take her home to mom and dad then she may be a little more innocent than one you wouldn't take home. However, I understand we all have needs. I would suggest talking about sex first and finding out what she thinks. If she is no tinterested in having sex so soon then you have to decide on whether taking her home to mom is more important than getting some quick booty. If the second is more important then dump her and find something quick and easy. But if you are a gentleman and think you can hold out for the long haul, hang in there bud, some things are worth waiting for and much better when you do. Rushing things only creates anxiety and the sex turns out crappy anyway.
2006-10-15 05:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Raijin78 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you wait until you get to know each other really well, then sex is an extension of that bond you have. If you have sex prematurely before you know each other, it sort of stops that "getting to know you" momentum and just becomes shallow and about the sex.
2006-10-15 12:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A few weeks maybe but you don't want her to lose interest or think your not attracted to her.. Besides you don't want to wait too long what if she's no good in bed for one reason or another!
2006-10-15 12:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait until you can't stand it any more and then you wait even longer. Work on building friendship which is the base of a relationship.
2006-10-15 12:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If she's worth it, you'll wait about a year. But if I were you, I'd sit her down and share with her your feelings. Strong relationships start with solid communication. Maybe sharing your feelings might jump start her libido. Good luck.
2006-10-15 12:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my bf 9 years I asked him his answer his answer was 2 weeks which is WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You should wait until she is comfortable to let you know that what she wants too..when she is ready she will show you in someway or another
2006-10-15 12:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her 2 months.
2006-10-15 12:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until we are married
2006-10-15 12:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by » mickdotcom « 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋