i really like my sistres boyfriend how can i stop liking him
2006-10-15 04:57:57 · 27 answers · asked by ruby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's tough. I think alot of people have had these type of crushes. If you really care about your sister, just keep it to yourself. Don't ever let her find out or the boyfriend for that matter. It will really cause problems and it's not worth it, when there are other guys out there for you. Right now, it's probably just a phase, but really it's something eventually you should grow out of. Just don't let the feelings escalate to a level that's out of control, you know, where you find yourself trying to make passes at him. That won't be cool. Just put the thought far behind you and try hanging out with some other guys. I don't know if he is older or not, but if he is, just try to find some guys your own age. Some people, especially older guys might try to take advantage of your emotions, so be careful. After you find someone, you'll look back at it and laugh.
2006-10-15 05:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't stop liking him but your sisters boyfriend is strictly off limits. Do not spend time around him unless you have a family supper or spend holidays together so that you are forced to be around him. If you love your sister be careful not to make him or her aware that you feel this way. Secondly get your own boyfriend and if you already have one let him go and find one that you can fall in love with since you're not in love with him.
Please don't tell your sister anyone that would give you that advice does not have a sister or they are a guy thinking in a guy way.
2006-10-15 05:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your sister about it. A secret isn't a secret if it's shared. Not only will you strengthen a bond with your sister but you'll have it out in the open and she can help you by ensuring he spends less time with you and vice versa. Temptation + opportunity = disaster. Remember that this guy will come and go. But your sister will be calling you up when you're 70. Think about where your priorities and loyalties lie.
2006-10-15 05:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why you can,t find any one else than him..you miss out,run out of time?Happenstance can play a major role.especially if you meet someone.There may be some one out there-but not your sister's boyfriend-not necessarily the only one.Why are you jealous on the choice of your own sister's love! On your honesty- The first step toward finding b/f who is truthfully is to discover the truth about yourself.
2006-10-15 05:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should know that these kind of feeling always make things go bad. Try to find someone else. You might just be attracted to your sister's boyfriend because of sibling jealousy. The best thing to do in this situation is to look for someone else, it might be hard but its possible.
2006-10-15 05:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, how much older (or younger) is he than you?
If you want to stop liking him just keep telling yourself that you could hurt your sister, he already has a gf, and he might only think of you as just your sister's sister.
2006-10-15 05:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to remember that your family is more important than any guy in your life or in hers. there are plenty guys out there... you really have to get your own. think about how this would hurt your sister... and your relationship with her. and for the time being, until you do have a guy of your own, try to avoid hanging out with them at all.
good luck...
2006-10-15 05:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ever think about him, he's ur sister's boyfriend. Don't hurt ur sister in this way.
Go meet other people, try not to see him at all.
2006-10-15 05:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sob Sob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go out and find your own guy. Do not stoop that low. I mean you know what you have to loose. There are a lot of guys out there. So go find a free one.
2006-10-15 05:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your sister if you guys can share. Sisters are supposed to share stuff.
2006-10-15 05:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋