2006-10-15 04:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by SJM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just remember it does take two parents working in harmony to raise a child. The love one has for a child is not the same as the love one has for a mate. Don't compare the two together. Express those realities to your hubby. He will accept your rational answer. If he is the childs biological father, he wll be around a long time, unless you drive him away into the arms of a female that will treat him better. A son should have a strong bond with his father, for many reasons, all of which you should already know! Don't become an "Enabler" as a mother. That is a horrible pattern to start.
2006-10-15 05:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by kam_1261 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a problem mothers have - most husbands hope to be the main love of their wives, but nature insists you pay more attention to the children. If you are friendly and warm with your husband and he is kind to you both, you can thank him for your son, explain he's all the eggs in your basket right now but when he's at school - everything will change - and it usually does.
2006-10-15 12:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try communicating with your husband more. Find things the 3 of you can do as a family so you bond. Love for a child is different than love for a spouse. He needs to learn the difference and be secure with you loving both.
2006-10-15 11:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time manage,ent. Spend time with your son, but spend a little more with your husband. Your son needs his time be be alone and play with his imagination. Take that time (as well as the time you set asside for your husband ) and make it time well spent. Show him how much you love and appreciate him. His feelings of neglect and taking second place in your life will dissipate. If you let it go like it is, he'll resent his own son for taking you away from him. I've seen it happen.
2006-10-15 11:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lovefor a son or daughter is a bond through blood, the love with a spouse is a bond through feelings.
2006-10-15 12:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats natural to love something u gave life to more than anything else in this world. i defiantely love my child more than my man.it is however, not natural to love ur child in ways that make others feel uncomfortable. its unfortune that ur husband notices it. maybe u all need to talk about what it is that bothers him. see what ur doing wrong and what u can do to show ur husband more attention and affection
2006-10-15 12:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal..he should understand that..I mean you have a son that is half him and half you..so he does not need to feel jealous about it
2006-10-15 12:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋