Am I the only one who think that if you want to date another person you should first break up with the first one? what is your opinion of "parallel dating" ?
2006-10-15 04:18:45 · 26 answers · asked by ywe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you...So many times i here i read will i have this BF but i like this other guy, or I'm have a BF and im dating this other guy...It maddening, don't this people realize this will come back on them later, not to mention the feelings of the person being screwed over is feeling...It why if you see me type flip a coin, its a stupid answer to a really stupid question...I think one needs to end a relationship, then go out with someone else...Cant wait till those who do this are on the other end and they are getting screwed over, only then do i believe they will realize what they did....
2006-10-15 04:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my book its cheating on the person that you are already dating. Best to break up first and give yourself some time before even considering getting into another relationship. When you feel the time is right then get out there and find someone else not while you are already spoken for.
2006-10-15 12:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has their own view of what "dating " is. It depends on your age also. It is ok to go out on a date with different people.
I dont sit around and wait for the phone to ring for anyone! I learned that loyalty and exclusivity are earned and I saved it for those who I wanted to be with more often. Those that I developed a close relationship with.
I always got along best with the men who understood the way I am. I dont explain it really, I just dont call. When we see each other in public we have a nice conversation, and they are reminded how much fun I have. They know what my number is if they want to go out. They catch on fast.
Quality men are plentiful, and you can have a lot of fun if you play your cards right. Women who choke the life out of men are insane! (and vice versa)
Take life as it comes, always have fun, learn to have fun by yourself, and you will attract so many males you will not have time to go out with them all. By the way I am not suggesting you need to "do" them all! Be selective with that or youll be the town **** instead of the town's female stud muffin!
ALWAYS HAVE FUN!
2006-10-15 11:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by ms_bourbon_balls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You opion is right. Why would you want to date more than one person at once. Thats too much on you and its the wrong thing to do. Unless its a mutual agreement to date others, then the other you are dating you have to let know that you are currently dating someone else. Again I think its to much. One at a time.
2006-10-15 11:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on what you mean by 'dating' if this is an intimate relationship or there is any kind of commitment then I'm for one at a time but if it's just friendly, getting to know you stage then you can date a few before kissing anyone. if you are with someone and date someone else then you'll get a bad reputation
2006-10-15 14:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see anything wrong with dating multiple people. Dating is all about finding out about a person, it's not a relationship as such, you're just hanging out to see if you both click. Why shouldn't you be allowed to hang out with different people. I've been in situations where I've liked a couple of girls and have been seeing them both to find out who I like the most. I don't see anything bad about it, I'm just having fun and getting to know them.
For example, I meet a girl and we go out for a date and it goes well, so we arrange to go out again. Next day I meet a different girl who wants to go out. I'm not going to turn her down because of ONE date with the first girl. I'm going to take her out and see what she's like as well. It's about not putting all your eggs in one basket and keeping your options open.
Of course, if you decide you want to get serious with someone then that's a different matter. Once you start getting physical then I think it's only fair to see one person at a time.
2006-10-15 12:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say its best to break up with the first one before dating someone else, if neither of them know your seeing someone else then you could end up losing both of them. Best to take it one person at a time and that way its easier.
Take care
2006-10-16 06:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you. Why would you want to date a person if you don't like them enough not to cheat on them? If you have that little respect for a person why stay with them?
The other way round is just as weird, though. One of my friends is 'seeing' a bloke. They are not officially together but spend most weekends with each other and they have agreed not to see other people. But they're not together! What's that about!!?!?!?!?!?!?!
2006-10-15 11:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's definitely not right to have two companions at the same time; unless the two of them are aware of the others involvement with you! My opinion is to break things off with one of them and let him have a fair shot with someone else that will truly appreciate him!
2006-10-15 11:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by shelly_mo67 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously u r not the only one dear,i completely agree with you that you definely shud break up with someone before even asking someone else out and that is to leave space for politeness and trust in this world.another reason why u shud break up 1st is to avoid yourself big problems like facing the other one suddenly...-we have enough problems ine life,why contribute to it
2006-10-15 11:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by Kamal Raj R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋