I know I need to give him time but what am I supposed to do until then? I've tried to move on and even talk to other guys but it hurts too bad. They say time heals all things, but what am I supposed to do until then?
2006-10-15 04:07:28 · 14 answers · asked by aimeenicole33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant move on especially to another relationship until u have healed from this one. Rebound relationships are the worst. You can't turn feelings off like a light switch, so while he is having his "time" to think or whatever he is doing.........go out and spend time with your friends, do things for u and keep living life. If he takes too much time and space u might not be there for him in the end and that will be his loss. Focus on "u" not "him", just don't turn to another to make it better because it wont.
2006-10-15 04:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 07:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will remain heartbroken for a while in you dont do nothing, but try going out to clubs, parties. You may feel funny about flirting with other guys but that will work. Just go out and do you have a good time. Find a guy that will take you wining and dining. After you do that a couple of times, you will eventually be over him.
2006-10-15 04:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy. try to keep your schedule as full as possible. Don't underestimate the importance of this "grieving period" It allows us to grow and mature. Adversity builds character - probably not what you want to hear right now, but it is true. With every experience you become a stronger woman. The faster you learn to deal with break-ups, the more resiliant a woman you become and any good man out there would not want a whiney, dependant, helpless woman.
2006-10-15 04:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one says they "need time", forget about them!! They have something/someone else going on in their life and they don't want you included in it. I really wish people wouldn't use that for an excuse to get out of a relationship, and be honest enough just to say - I don't want to be around you anymore, there's someone else I'm interested in.
It'll hurt for a while if you care about the guy but just get busy doing something else so you don't dwell on it... it'll pass.
2006-10-15 04:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by kcgsister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's his way of saying he has found someone else and is not ready to settle down with one girl. you need to move on with your live without him, this does not mean you have to rush out and find another guy right at this min. why do people think that if they break up with someone the have to find someone else that same day? take time for yourself and find out what kind of guy you are attracted to.
2006-10-15 04:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by mama bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't even talk to him,ring him, are pass the time of day with him. Let him be and find a guy bet he soon comes looking you back. Been there myself
2006-10-15 04:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right idea about healing. Though I do not know why you two broke it off so I can't help. For now just accept it for what it is. IT IS WHAT IT IS.
cheers darlin
2006-10-15 04:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im in a similar situation but that time can take forever and you can't wait forever for someone and it hurts I know but keep yourself busy, don't think about him, go out with friends, do something that makes you happy, let a man wait for you don't wait for him cause half of them aint worth waiting for.
2006-10-15 04:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by ™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK girlfriend,let me ask you one simple question,
have you ever heard a song from UK girl band Atomic Kitten called "See You"???
Please do listen carefully to every single word in the song and make sure you digest it well.
Thats my sincerest advice to you.
Im feeling you.
2006-10-15 04:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋