a while back i heard something odd on this radio show i heard so i am going to ask you ladies what you think lets say hypothetically we were a couple and you came home and i was handling myself if you know what i mean now would you be offended? because this lady on said radio show said if a man does that while in a relationship its cheating is it cheating? and what do you fine wise women say to this
2006-10-15 04:05:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U and ur crazy hypothetically questions ;o)!!!
Well no i wouldn't be offended, because boys/men will need a way to calm theirself down if no girl/women can give them what they want. N to me i don't think it is cheating, u aren't doing anything but just messing with urself, not with anyone else.
2006-10-15 04:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different women approach this differently.
Generally, the more in control of a relationship a person needs to be, the
more they will find that their partner masturbating is unacceptable (because
only he or she should be able to bring sexual release).
There are (and will always be) marriages where the MAJORITY of sex
is masturbatory - marriages that are loving and last 50 years or more.
It may be wrong for the lady on the radio, but she is probably in the
minority, especially for people who have been married for awhile. It
is a pretty unrealistic assessment of how sex works in a marriage.
2006-10-15 11:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a load of crap (no pun intended). Actually, I'd probably get offended cause I missed some of the show! Wouldn't bother me a bit.
I pity that lady's partner! She sounds way out of balance and I suspect not only in her opinion of what cheating is.
2006-10-15 11:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not cheating if my man does not satisfy me enough I take care of it myself, now if there was another girl helping him out that would be cheating.
2006-10-15 12:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by marygold2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she nuts! how can that be cheating...if anything the man is being cheated out of the real thing, and resorting to the hand job......no actually i would say to him keep playing with your p***s...go ahead knock yourself out.
2006-10-15 11:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I caught my bf doing that one time I was hurt and felt betrayed, because he was watching naked women at the time. I was upset because he could have used me or at least let me watch that is a turn on, I love to see guys do that it is so sexy. I think most women would be upset because you left them out.
2006-10-15 11:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is cheating then I have cheated on my man many, many, many times. This goes to show you that all women do not think alike.
2006-10-15 11:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Candi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say your cheating just enjoying yourself. I would say to you do ya need a hand there lol
2006-10-15 11:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not cheating. My partner and I don't do it because we have a healthy sex life. I don't like masterbating myself or seeing my partner do it to himself. It is not cheating if you do it by yourself though.
2006-10-15 11:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Feckpot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not cheating. But couldn't you wait for her to come home???
2006-10-15 11:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋