I met a lady that is 57yrs old,not very pretty and i'm 32yrs old soon to be 33 in Nov,should i go with this person? She makes me feel so good,no not sexually just comfortable to be around.I'm good looking and i make her feel the same,think i love her,but don't want others to say ewwww,ya know?
2006-10-15 02:22:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mate u go what is good for u have a good one bye
2006-10-15 02:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by NAUGHTY GURL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway. I don't know why people saying ewww! would sway you all that much. People say ew over all sorts of stuff. But is she just a good friend or do you want to "go" with her in other ways? Love is multi faceted thing and if you're wanting to get physically involved on top of the whole emotionally comfortable thing, then other people will always put their two cents in, wanted or not. But they are not you and this decision is all yours. Is she special enough for you to not give a #$% about what anyone else thinks? If that would bother you, I wouldn't go with her because you're only in for making you feel good about yourself. She gotta feel good too if you get into a relationship. Maybe you should ask her about it. She might not want a youngster! Best of luck to you both.
2006-10-15 09:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by green eyed sole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must follow what's in your heart. I am saying this from personal experience. I met a guy that is 17 years older then me, I'm 25 and he's 42. We started hanging out and always have great time. Then we fell in love with each other and its been the best 6months together. He's not the best looking guy around, no, but his personality and how I feel with him, makes him attractive to me and I don't care what others think. Its how I feel with him that matters to me. So follow your heart and good luck.
2006-10-15 10:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Concerned Friend 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You feel good being around her and that's great. Are you considering a relationship with her? Being realistic, that is a substantial difference in age and you have to realize that you will want physical interaction from someone at some point, can she provide that? I'm sure that you love her, but in what capacity? Lots of people can make you feel good, but if you're seeking a relationship with her, picture yourself 10 to 15 to 20 years from now with her. All the best.
2006-10-15 09:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by coolguy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its a perfectly legitimate question, that i see nothing wrong with what so-ever...........personally though, i think problems are going to arise familywise....if you want a son(e.g. mechanical engineer) or/and a daughter(e.g. computer engineer),..this wont be possible due to her age, with the only alternative being adoption. also,..when she is a 90 yr old,. you will still be relatively young. personally no doubt though,.she is a very lovely lady, but realistically though,. disregarding other peoples irrelevant stares and comments,. the simple length of age gap would simply make a relationship over the long term, very difficult to sustain, paticularly in terms of sons and daughters familywise. still, whilst this is just a personal opinion, its a decision that you's will have to decide.
2006-10-15 10:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should date who you feel comfortable with, just be ready for the looks, etc. I had to go through it when I dated an older man, you have to be stronger than them...if you have any reservations though, the relationship won't work because of the underlying tension..go all out or don't go.
2006-10-15 09:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by daisy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At 32 you should know that what others think isn't important. It's what YOU think that's important.
You should also know that it's not very easy to find someone that that you "click" with. Do what feels right to you.
2006-10-15 09:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think your being a idiot!! If this persons making you feel this way, then why would you care about what other people think?..People everyday wish they can find someone special like you have..I say stop worring about everyone one else and go out with her!!!!!
2006-10-15 09:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by tazzle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your serious, age shouldn't matter. The heart wants what the heart wants.
If your kidding: Is she loaded? You found yourself a sugar momma! And in 5 years if you can tough it out, she'll qualify for retirement so suck it up and then sponge off of her. Nothing wrong with that!
2006-10-15 09:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
do wot eva u think is rite dont pass up on this just coz ur scared of wot otherz will think...be ur self other wise u will neva be happy...
2006-10-15 09:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋