2006-10-15 01:30:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Star its me again shadowtwo, your boyfriend has issues with
himself that he can't control. Your there and he takes them
out on you, for he doesn't know how to deal with them by him
self. Lashing out at you makes it worst and become very
ugly. Stand up for yourself, and say i'm a better person than
you and you will not lower my standards down to your level.
You really need to move on, before something awful happens.
Thanks for your answer back, couldn't e-mail you for i don't
have it. Heres mine-bblnms with yahoo. Contact me o.k..
2006-10-16 05:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by shadowtwo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he's playing around, because if he's not, then he's just being cruel and mean. If he's hurting your feelings because of this, you need to tell him so and ask him to stop. Please don't start doubting yourself because of what one person says to you, I'm sure that there are many other people out there that think you're very cute. The most important person who you should be listening to is yourself. What do you think? Are you cute? From your avatar, I'd say yes.
Continual exposure to someone who puts you down by calling you ugly or saying other hurtful things is not good for your self-esteem. Please talk with your boyfriend and ask him to stop. If he truly cares about you, he will.
2006-10-15 08:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur boyfriend calls u ugly he shouldnt be ur boyfriend. however if sometimes he calls u ugly and later he says ur the most beautiful girl in the world, as boyfriends usually do, then hes just joking about the ugly thing.
2006-10-15 08:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look yourself in the Mirror first, and if you're ugly, it can't be helped, you need to be proud of being ugly in that case, and your boyfriend will have to live with that, just tell him you are proud to be ugly, and he better accept you the way it is.
2006-10-15 08:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by quilm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he have picked an "ugly" girlfriend if he's all that himself?? You are not ugly but he sure is (on the inside)!! He's being mean, unkind and insensitive. Tell him about it!!
2006-10-15 09:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now to make him stop saying this, pick his worst feature and make fun of him, if he takes it as a joke then he is probably joking as well.
if he asks you if that's a joke you tell him
'if you are joking then so am I but if you min it then I mean it too'
will make him look like a fool.
If he brakes up with you that means he was trying to get you to brake up with him, he a jerk and not worth your time.
If he really thinks you're ugly, he wouldn't be going out with you.
hope this helped
2006-10-15 08:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont know what you look like but everyone is beautiful to someone else. if your boyfriend is saying that your ugly, i think you need to talk to him to see what he means and why hes saying it. you are beautiful in your own special ways. you dont have to dress up or wear a ton of makeup and jewelry. just be yourself
2006-10-15 08:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its just cause he might be teasing u and if u feel hurted then say t him if he cares for u or feels that u took it seriously and will surely apolojize but if he still take the lighter way then get rid of him cause bf's of such types r not a good choice.
2006-10-15 08:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by nivi rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either joking or trying to drag you down. I cant say as I dont know him. But yur not ugly,noone is.
2006-10-15 08:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is not sensitive enough and keeps calling you ugly, then he doesn't deserve you.
2006-10-15 08:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋