Do u agree that only one person can make you feel so vulnerable, while making love. Its sensatunal and beautiful, but does it always last. Well i experienced it and lost my guy. Our sex was great but somehow we not together, He always reckon to me whenever we make love, than he feel like a man. I quit miss that feeling, cause it was breathtaking wonderful.
2006-10-15 01:22:44 · 11 answers · asked by matrix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely not. Males at least are not geared that way and I doubt you girls aren't either. A relationship built on sex generally runs hot and steamy for about 3 months then fizzles out no matter how good the sex is. If you don't believe me or your own relationship look at other people's relationships (even movie stars) and see how long they last after intimacy. It is true that sex soothes the male savage beast but that isn't what keeps him around. Friendship makes great companionship which can make the intimacy much much better. A male will feel more like the hunting man if he is involved in a long relationship with a worthy woman who he finally wins over plus the sex will be even better for him. When I say long friendship I mean a year or more before any nookie. If not it is a male thing to do to go off and spread the genes where ever they can and 3 months of the same thing is usually the spread of a mating season. The only way to defeat that is condition his mind to and make him think like a man and not an animal. He will appreciate you more believe me.
2006-10-15 01:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Wild Ape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing..... Women bond during intimacy (sex), as well as in other ways. Men, do not bond during sex. For men, sex is sex. Period. I am not saying that a man is not capable of bonding, not at all. But the way to a man's heart is NOT through his genitals, contrary to popular belief. The way to a man's heart will be different with each man, but it is guaranteed that you cannot get a man to fall in love with you, and stay in love with you with sex. I think kindness, a willingness to emotional support him, and loyalty are probably the most important gifts that a woman can give to a man, and a good man who appreciates these gifts will be the man who will fall in love and stay that way. The most important thing to understand is that it is the QUALITY of the man that will determine how long your relationship lasts. Begin by only looking and dating men who fit the qualitites that you are looking for. Then, and ONLY then give your body to the man who has already fallen in love with you, not the other way around.
2006-10-15 01:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl.. hope ur ok now!!!
well for me... making love is rili makes a relationship achieve a great foundation and elated but always remember that sex dont...
there is a very big difference between sex&making love,hop u know that!!!!
me too experinced making love but lose a guy...the first guy who deverginized me and i tot that we can be forever but we've lost each other and i guez there is a guy rili meant for me and willing to wait, hop u do 2!!!
making love is the best thing in the world & yes its a great big deal of strong foundation,but dont expect that he is the right one fo u... and there are a lot of things can make u happy an make the foundation strong...
maybe u have to learn to be "open"... express ur tots and so do ur partner...from there u can have a great deal of communication,i mean personally/ by heart...
hope i have answer ur questn & help u jz a bit...
2006-10-15 01:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by babylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you don't 'get it'.
Love doesn't come from banging someone.
I will never understand why people think this. It never works, yet they try, and try and try.
Sex comes from love, not the other way around. If you don't know who the peson is, how they laugh, what amuses them, what makes them sad, or afraid, then you can't fool yourself, or them by roping them into the sack and banging their brains out.
Hookers do that.........is that love? Not that I know of.
Love comes from taking the time with someone. Knowing who they are and appreciating them for their good qualities, but also their faults. Then you express it with kissing, holding hands, and then sex........physical affection.
Sex without love isn't love making and it isn't breathtaking. Sex with someone you are in love with and truly love. THAT is breathtaking.
Sex with someone without love is just being a hooker, and in the case of a man....a male whore. Real special.
2006-10-15 01:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Intimacy is more then just making love. I think the making love should come after two people know they really connect in their interests and do not have a toxic friendship.
If it comes earlier it could be just a bit of fun & not actual intimately making love.
2006-10-15 01:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Stoosha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not the only way to form and enjoy intimacy, but after having sex with your girlfriend, it does change things, it takes the relationship to a deeper level, no pun intended.
2006-10-15 01:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but that has to be some of the dumbest sh*t I have ever heard. Sex is a physical thing, you do it because it feels good, nothing more.
2006-10-15 01:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is not the only tie that binds-Got to have love!
2006-10-15 01:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be intimate without sex involved..being intimate is getting to know your partner emotionally not just physically
2006-10-15 01:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so just enjoy it, as long as its giving you good feeling and you like it, go for it. just don't get pregnant!! if he is using you, use him to!
2006-10-15 01:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋