i used to be a big fat lier but now i quite and am honest all the time but my parents don't ever believe me about any thing tell me what i shoul do to regain their trust
2006-10-15 01:21:54 · 24 answers · asked by ahmed m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Proove yourself to them. Stick to your word, go where you say you are going to go, and call in to let them know if anything has changed from the originial plan. Keep well communicated. This way, they will know that you are being honest, and they know you are not trying to sneak anything by them. Offer them phone numbers of friends houses you are going to before they ask. Don't ask to go too many places, and make sure you have your homework always done right after school. That's what my daughter's have always done, and I've always trusted them.
2006-10-15 01:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by LARGE MARGE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be truthful and remember that it takes time to regain someones trust after they've been lied to so much....even parents need time. They need to see the change in you for a period of time first and eventually you will regain their trust.You should be proud of yourself for making the change. You will be a better person in the future if you start living honestly now. It will save you from having troubled relationships in the future. Give them some time and they'll come around.
2006-10-15 02:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will start very slowly and will take alot of time. This past behaviour leaves a very big imprint on a family....
Don;t express that you are telling the truth all the time... Actions speak louder than words... Start with little things, like chores around the house, taking phone messages properly at home, doing homework without being told to, don't help yourself to any money that is lying around or going into a parents purse or wallet, stop doing things that your parents had to get after you for.... Keep your curfew... make a conscious effort to act responsible with everything that you do and follow through... It will take time...
2006-10-15 01:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes parents time to regain their trust for you. Remember you are the one that took that trust away from them. So be patient, continue being truthful to them and they'll once again gain that trust in you back.
2006-10-15 01:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the making of "Wisdom"
This will be only one of lifes problems that you will figure out as time goes by.
Some day, you will tell your child not to lie or people who you respect wont believe you, and that child will say to you
"you think you know it all"....
when in fact, this was a lesson you've learned many, many years ago, and now have the wisdom to share with someone else...
Your folks will come around, and as time goes by your word will mean more to the people you resect, and you'll carry these lifes lessons as the years go on....
2006-10-15 01:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey remember the story of the boy and the fox? so by the time the boy was calling the crowd that this time the fox came, no one believed him anymore. this is your story, but hang on. m a parent too. i know when my child is telling the truth. maybe your parents just wants you to learn your lesson thats why they want you to realize your mistake first before rushing to beleive you again. going back to lying again wont solve the problem and bring back their trust either. so you better stick to telling the truth until they put back their trust on you. good luck
2006-10-15 01:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by mela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard for parents when their child has lied so much give them respect show them you have chnaged it will take time for them to regain their trust in you gain but i am sure if you work at it it will all work out for you and just remember no more lies no matter how small the lie is
2006-10-15 01:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to keep proving yourself. Unfortunately I found that you have to prove yourself to everyone. It will take time possibly years but be patient and keep doing the right things and they will eventually trust you again. Once you betray trust it is hard to get it back.
2006-10-15 01:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is earned.....once you've established yourself as a liar----thief, cheat----it's really hard for any one to ever trust you. Proof is in actions that are repetitive and built for TRUST to be given to you.
Trust takes a long time to earn ----
2006-10-15 01:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep going the way you are it will take time to rebuild the trust but you are on the right track good luck
2006-10-15 01:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋