Me and my boyfriend has been together for 6 mounths now..
and His birthday is comming up.
I dont know rather I should get him somthing because he didnt get me anything on my my birthday and he also forgot my birthday....
so should i get him somthing ?
2006-10-15 01:02:41 · 17 answers · asked by becca . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A card should suffice... He obviously id not into celebrationd so a card would be the only thing I would bother with.....
Some guys just don't get the birthday, anniversary thing......and it's importance to women/////
2006-10-15 01:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. You could get him something and make it extra special and he will feel bad about missing yours. It may help to correct it next year. But if you decided not to buy him anything don't expect anything the next bday either. Also consider that he isn't that good of a bf that he forgot your birthday. I'm guessing you reminded him before the day? Just don't get serious with him and marry him unless you can deal with this, because a man doesn't change after you get married.
2006-10-15 01:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jan G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him something small because you want to. Don't give him a present to make him feel guilty. That's not healthy for a relationship. Is he good to you every other day besides your birthday? If he is, I'd say don't worry about it. If he forgets your birthday and doesn't treat you well to begin with, don't waste your time and break it off! Good luck.
2006-10-15 01:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get him a little something. it doesnt have to be big. maybe he wasnt sure to get you anything on your birthday? so maybe thats why he didnt. however if your boyfriend didnt get you anything thats got to be abit of a bummer! think about what he said as an explanation to that? did he have an answer? maybe you could get him something just to prove a point! it doesnt mean you give to recieve bt its nice just to know that your thought of on your birthday. and them maybe he'll realise that hes got to get you something extra special for christmas!! you seem like a fair person. hope this helps!!!
2006-10-15 01:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by plonker!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get him somthing , dont act like him
u dont want to start arguing and yelling at eachother
i mean really like be the bigger person thats what happened to me but i was really mad so all i did was give him a card and gift card
2006-10-15 01:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kiana A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would but thats only cause i like being the better person kwim and perosonally 2 wrongs dont make a right.......its only been 6 months and really he probably just simply forgot kwim
good luck
2006-10-15 01:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Nikki*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are like that.just cant keep track of occasions.my guy forgot my bday 2years in a row.but he's great minus this fault.wish him and present him something nice but remind him that he forgot ur birthday...
2006-10-15 01:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now the only person that remembers my birthday is my daughter. Before tho, the other ones that remember my birthday are now attacking me.
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I'm happy that you are not attacked!
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2006-10-15 01:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think you should throw him a surprise b-day party w/ you and some of his friends. and then just get him something, to show that even though he forgot your birthday you still care about him
well goodluck to u!
2006-10-15 01:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go ahead and get him nothing. Then next year he'll get you nothing. And then you can spend your whole lives together unapprecated and waiting for that next opportunity to get revenge. Have a nice life!
An eye for and eye only makes the whole world blind.....
2006-10-15 01:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋