2006-10-15 00:36:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I kinda feel the same but remember what it was like being with the wrong someone so I am starting to enjoy being with me while I look for that right someone!
Get out there hon, have some fun and that right someone will appear and then you will wonder what it was ever like being single!
2006-10-15 02:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't feel that way at all. I've been single for nearly a year and the longer it goes on, the less I can be bothered with a man who is just going to screw up my life again and make me unhappy.
Does your life only consist of your love life? While you're single, concentrate on your career, learn new things, go travelling, see your friends and family, have fun and then when you do meet someone, they will like you all the more because you are more interesting, richer and most importantly not desperate!
2006-10-15 00:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Katya-Zelen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. It's kind of like you are stuck in limbo. However, you do have a life whether or not you have a new love. You need to concentrate on living and enjoying the life you do have. You can't go looking for love and if you are sitting there waiting for it to come, then it probably won't. Enjoy what you have. Life is way too short not to. And, don't worry about a "new" love coming along, it will come when it is supposed to.
2006-10-15 00:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm single right now and sometimes I feel like this.
However the best way to be positive about it is, treat it as an opportunity to try and do new things and live your own dreams.
A lover, partner girlfriend afterall is just one part of life's rich tapestry and you will have more to give your next significant other if you do interesting things and have interesting experiences now.
2006-10-15 00:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then if your single you need to be out there and mingle as well. Never think your life is on hold. If it's on hold, then its because your not doing something right. So open your eyes a little bit and really think about what you wannna do.
2006-10-15 00:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by Gabbrielle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good thing about being single is that you can be selfish and put yourself first when you feel like it, without having to think about the needs of others as much.
Regular sex is a little more difficult to find though, granted.
2006-10-15 02:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be that way!! Enjoy the single life....enjoy being selfish...enjoy not having to answer to anyone or consider someones feelings when you want to go do somthing!! Before you know it you'll be in another relationship and you'll be glad that you go all that you could out of your single life!
2006-10-15 01:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to enjoy being single, you must learn to be comfortable with yourself otherwise you will never have a successful relationship. You need to be a complete person in your own right, not needing someone to make you feel whole, it just doesn't work that way.
2006-10-15 00:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I feel the same too. I'm just trying to have fun being single and flirting whilst in dating limbo.
2006-10-15 00:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Satinette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently, men tend to feel like this more than women - women make the time of being single more fun and enjoy independance more. Men 'need' marriages more and married men live longer than single men!
2006-10-15 01:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋