my 16y darling daughter creid out that stepdad had been sexually abuseing her. cps took her from me tetsing positive with drugs i failed her by continueing to use & staying with molester i had never been on my own & was financailly dependent on him she wouldnt testify against him he still remains free close to 3 years da & cps said i was noncreditably to testify bs twin gained custody of my child & she lays up with him child refuses to be with & talk to me i have pleaded with her she is at second college level education i had lead a very unhealthy lifestyle since our seperation i escorted for close to 3ys met a wonderful man in which open my eyes to life again eager to reagain gaurdianship back massage therapy school will begin for me and i will go to any lengths to have her under my wings and safegaurd her mind soul spirit and health da & cps are dragging there feet he'll never be caught jerry offered me 1000 for my story i need her in my life whatever shall i do huge tears i cry
2006-10-15 00:26:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As a mother how could you choose between the molester and your child?? I don't understand and never will. This is what your daughter is feeling and you will need to give her time. I don't know if she will ever forgive you. Your first responsbility is to your child not to the a**hole that was hurting her. I don't mean to be harsh but I am a mother and it outrages me that this happens to these poor defenseless children that don't have a voice in this world. And Jerry who Springer offered you money for your story and if you go on that show then you really should not have her back in your life.
2006-10-15 01:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this issues need time to heal the emotional wounds,specially those done by close family member,so u just have to emprove ur self and ur way of life,and hope to god that she may ever forgive u one day.do not try to be pushy about it,just try to show her how sorry u r and how much u have changed,but be very carefull to cut all connections what so ever with the crepy molester.good luck to u all,i feel really sorry for ur poor daughter and for u.
2006-10-15 10:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is in college, then she is old enough to make her own decisions. You should have been there for her instead of getting high and staying with the creep. No excuse. This is a painful lesson for you.
2006-10-15 07:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this makes no sense but how could you stay with a man who molested your daughter
2006-10-15 08:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by titania 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it but hope you learned your lesson and i am sure one of these days she may forgive you......good luck
2006-10-15 07:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Nikki*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋