me n my bf has age difference of 4 yrs..due to which..our thinking is also different .i m 19...n he want me to behave like a lady of 23...which i cant...he doesnt like my frivoulous nature as normally teenagers have..n he want me to get matured n learn about home and family...he tells me 2 keep quiet wen i argue wid him in a playfull way and he thinks he is always rite wen i get annoyed on his rude comments..he says he was jst joking and i m very behaving very childishly....i feel as if there is no importance of my opinions..as he always want me to go his way..i love him n he too ..but the way he dominates me n want me to change myself into a matured woman just at the age of 19...it gives me more mental pressure as he doesnt understnd a mind of a teenager
2006-10-14 22:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl just sit down with him n talk to him and make him think that you are an independent girl and you hav got brains too o.k
2006-10-14 22:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by zinja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is of course the worst case scenrio, for people with age differences, I mean he expects alot out of you, and you want to live your life to the fullest and not be pressured into growing up so fast. So well you need to think about how much you love this guy, is it worth it for him to keep doing this to you, and if he does get married to you, what respect will you get out of the relationship. You can't even be sure that he won't turn out to be abusvie to you if things don't go his way. I know you love him but something things aren't worth it. And honestly this doesn't seem worth it at all. You two aren't married or engaged, so breaking up with him should be alot easier since it's just on a normal bf/gf level.
Find somebody alittle less older or stick with the age he was in, but find another guy that respects you and hasn't forgotten how to treat a girl. I mean the guy your dating may be 23, but he's acting as if he's 30 something, and your father. Not a very good thing. So just find a guy that wants to live his teenage years to the fullest just like you, and that way you can both grow up in your relationship together on the same page and pace. It will turn out to be alot better that way.
So just give it some thought and see what you want to do about it.
2006-10-15 00:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just watch him, yes i mean so. Try to find out his attributes his likes and dislikes, his break points etc. And act according to his attributes. The result will be; you will become a matured girl or he will start understand you and respect you. If you are living together when he went out, give him some surprises that you think it may wonder him when he back home.
This way, distance between you and him will be reduced gradually. Keep patience and be wise. also, dont be a kid always, make aware yourself that you are 19 and has responsibilities!
Let him read, "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus" by John Gray
Good luck
2006-10-14 22:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then basically this isn't the love your looking for. If he never takes you seriously whatever the cause is, then that should be a big wake up call for you. If you feel in your heart that things will never change with him or your relationship will never get better, then you should take a break for a while and let him know how SERIOUS you really are. Its your turn to take control!
2006-10-14 22:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Gabbrielle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm shocked that the administration did no longer do something. they must have referred to as the police. talk with the administrative or somebody in charge and phone the police. attempt to work out what style of auto he's driving. be careful going domicile; be certain you're no longer accompanied.
2016-10-19 10:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him!!! i once dated a 23 year old man when i was 17 years old. i know how u feel. don't give in to him, he needs to respect you as well and listen to you.
2006-10-14 22:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should confront him and tell him your feelings that you can't stand him telling you what to do [in a nice way]
2006-10-14 22:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by nej13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dating the wrong guy.
2006-10-14 22:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by boo! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋