A lot of people say that what makes a person perfect for them is simply just their personality. But let's face it, none of us are saints so let's get a little shallow for a moment.
What factors make a girl perfect? Large, medium, or small breasts? Smooth skin or tomboy weathered? Delicate hands or hard working fingers? Pale or tanned skin? Short, medium or long hair? Natural or dyed hair? Black or blonde or red or brunette? Light make up or show girl style paint? Tall or short? Large or small or average feet? A pessimistic view of the world, a smiling dreamer, a combination of the two? A love of music or sports? Swimsuit model skinny or home maker chunky? No body hair or the ocassional shave? Health above appearance or appearance above health?
Don't spare a single detail. Just give me your full opinion.
This is just a spur moment thought. I came up with it after a personal plan to begin improving my appearance. I can't wait to be hot again, and I hope some one approves.
2006-10-14
22:00:07
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Shel K
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
To the guy asking for before and afters:
My before I got like I am- Gothic, 5'1", 115 lbs, shoulder length dyed black hair, pale skin, always clean shaven, natural pink lipgloss or black lipstick, always heavy on the black eyeliner and mascara, washboard abs, size 5.5 average feet, 34C almost D breasts. Amateur model with supermodel qualities.
Now- Anything comfy, 5'2", 140 lbs, shoulder length natural brown hair, lightly tanned skin, never shave other than underarms (on strike against hubby, he has to shave for me to shave), lipgloss in natural shades with maybe a little silver sparkle, just light eyeliner and mascara on the eyes, look 6 month preggers when I'm not, size 6 average feet, 36D almost DD breasts. Need serious body overhaul to look like Tyra Banks!
I've always had a pessimistic view of the humanity side of the world, always embraced the natural world beauty. Back then, I wasn't so religious, now am very religious, but not creepy religious. Never afraid to work!
2006-10-15
16:04:40 ·
update #1
As soon as I have copies, I will post pictures from myself as an amateur and of myself now. When I finish my full overhaul, I will also post pictures then!
I posted this question because I'm debating a really good diet and permanent hair removal, plus a few more piercings and getting some tats done (nothing creepy or sluttish, just cute little feminine things that I think express the real me). My confidence and happiness, as well as beauty sense, is slowly but surely coming back to me.
I'm a down home southern girl (Rebs rock the f*cking country!) but not a stereotypical redneck. Definitely not racist. I've never posed as something I'm not. I have a well rounded taste in music, not too big on sports but am willing to watch and learn. I don't fear working hard, but that mostly comes from my upbringing.
I will do anything for my man to make him happy, but I will not, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, change who I am or do anything permanent to my body that I may regret later.
2006-10-15
16:16:23 ·
update #2
perfection makes a perfect woman.
2006-10-14 22:08:02
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answered by ArmedGangstaz 2
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No matter the size, natural breasts. Smoother skin, but not flawless. I like a woman who's not afraid of a little work. Tanned, but not bronzed and too fake. I'm into medium to long hair, but to each his own. Natural, not dyed. If not dyed, then whatever you were born with. Light make up ( you see this natural trend growing ?)
Ummm.. other than with or w/o heels, you can't exactly change height, but medium (even though my gf is 5'0"). and again, you can't change feet, so...
A careful dreamer, not too much in the clouds.. Gotta have interest in music and sports ( not necessarily a love for..)
Too skinny is way uncool, unhealthy, and so yesterday. A size 10ish (depending on frame- I've dated size 6 to 14) with some curves. Which leads me to skip a question and say- health above appearance.
I won't assume sexual content in your shave question, but will address it.. leave your arms natural, don't pluck eyebrows unless they are fuller than a man's (no little thin lines), shave those legs and underarms, and keep the bikini area trimmed neat with a partial shave.
Most of all is a slight bit of confidence in yourself, but don't be a prissy holier-than-thou b*tch.
Now all we need is before and after pics.. hope my input helps.
2006-10-14 22:24:39
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answered by thatoneguy 2
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well it's different for every guy. for me being 5'9" and 165lbs here ya go.......
medium breasts w/ small nipples
smooth skin that isn't scared to get a little dirty
soft hands that aren't scared of work
either pale or tan skin tone
short hair is sexy as long as you can pull off short hair
long hair is beautiful
natural brunette with highlights....blond, or black if oriental
light make-up natural looking...lip gloss not lipstick
shorter than me
small or average feet....narrow not wide
glass half full mentality...gotta look for the good in things
yeah both music and sports....with a dash of the finer arts like ballet and plays
absolutely skinny, but weight depends on how tall you are.
my ex wife is 5 ft. and 95 lbs
clean shaven everywhere!!!!! at least very well trimmed down south. i keep
myself clean down there and like my woman to be also
health above appearance......gotta look good and be healthy.
freak in the sheets and a lady in the streets
has to be attractive to me
so that is what you asked, but that is mainly the looks category and that part is only a small part of me being attracted to someone. a woman could be exactly like what i like looks wise, but depending on her attitude and personality she may end up being absolutely unattractive. a perfect 10 will still be a perfect 10 in the looks part, but if she were a smoker then she would automatically be taken off the possible list. smoking is VERY VERY unattractive and a total turn off.
2006-10-14 22:35:12
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answered by bob 2
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Well, if you are going to be a perfect girl in the role of a girl friend or non serious relation, be it as per the taste of your partner! not all people are coordinated to like same like of boobies! some like small, some medium, some huge! if you can be all these three, try to have..be confident with what you have, and find out a partner who admire it.
...and, if you are looking for a serious relation, none of the things you mentioned make you perfect. They are the 'accessories' of your perfection. If you have patience, wide heart to accept all the attributes of human, make you perfect..!
Thats my openion...certainly, others may have different views..
Good luck..:)
2006-10-14 22:10:39
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answered by Anonymous
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The perfect woman is one who exudes confidence, security, contentment and happiness. The perfect woman knows that she is whole and awesome the way she is.
She knows her physical attributes are unique to her. She accepts herself exactly the way she is, she knows she cannot be 100% of anything (beauty, brains,...) to 100% of the people. She can shrug and walk away without internalizing any negativity some negative people will no doubt throw her way
The perfect woman knows the source of her happiness is from within herself, she is solely responsible for her own happiness, and that no external judgments, or third parties have anything to do with her emotional, physical, or spiritual well being.
And when she knows all this, really knows this, she radiates it, and I promise you the whole world will know, and will be drawn to her like a magnate.
That is the perfect woman.
2006-10-14 22:39:23
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answered by Amber B 2
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there isn't any such ingredient as proper. all of us and each little thing has their/ it quite is flaws. all human beings who thinks that perfet exists is deluded. yet i'm going to offer suggestion on what makes a physically powerful woman. stable cook dinner, cleans the abode, stable finding, magnificent physique, stable in mattress, a astonishing guy or woman, stable to talk to and sensible.
2016-11-23 12:38:04
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answered by Anonymous
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As a man I can honestly tell you that what I look for is a great sense of humor. That's more important to me than the size of her breasts. I will admit I tend to go for women who look like women. If she's dressed like a commando, I don't care how good she looks underneath. The attraction is killed.
2006-10-14 22:13:49
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answered by Jimmythekid 3
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Brains, independence, good body in the classical sense, curvy and soft. The models in magazines can f**k themselves. Well read, funny, sexy but not a sl*t. Knows how to keep a secret.
2006-10-14 22:07:30
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answered by Anonymous
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it's the person that like you for who you are in side not what you look like. for me it's a large woman but not to big, big boobs a nice big butt more cushing for the pushing, no body hair it gets in the way. but thats me.
2006-10-14 22:12:38
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answered by james t 1
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First of all, to be muslem girl..conservative, with good manners and behaviour,u will perfect and accepted from Allah and ur society, u will find somebody (many ) seeking such kind of girls
2006-10-14 22:30:37
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answered by zshalalda 1
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Just be yourself. You are the perfect woman to a guy who truly loves you.
2006-10-14 22:04:25
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answered by jadEd 2
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