I am 14 am in love. I think he feels the same. We have been going out for a month now and we are still in the hug/I Love You's stage. Yes I know to watch out for all the sex and stuff. I know I am really young, I know that I can handle a relationship. What do guys like girls to do when the girls want them to take the next step. What will edge him on? Should I take the next step? If so, what should I do? I have always heard that 1 out of 100 high school sweethearts has a happy and successful marriage.
2006-10-14 21:45:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no we already decided we won't have sex ok! I don't know why everyone thinks that
2006-10-14 21:49:48 · update #1
I'm saying like a peck on the cheek/ lips
2006-10-14 21:51:19 · update #2
We decided we aren't going to become sexual. We both have ALOT to live for
2006-10-14 21:52:31 · update #3
We are both 14, i have had b/f's before, I have never felt like this before w/ anyone else. I usually break up w/ someone before we get to the I Love You stage. I am NOT into sex at all
2006-10-14 21:56:50 · update #4
One more thing: We were both like best friends before a school dance
2006-10-14 21:59:35 · update #5
I'm positive he makes me feel special
2006-10-14 22:05:47 · update #6
Ok I know he really loves me. When I am feeling sad he always cheers me up and says "Just know that I Love You, Maybe more than my family." If a guy says that to you when your only 14 and knows not to have sex and promised me when we were bffs that he would never hurt me then if it isn't true love, what is it? We both admitted that we liked each other over the summer
2006-10-14 22:13:00 · update #7
It's possible for you to have a lasting relationship since the age of 14, a buddy of mine has had a relationship with a chick since they were both 13 and 6 years later I think he's close to popping the question, because I mentioned a bachelor party another buddy o mine was having and he asked wether I was talking about him so if that ain't a sign I obviously can't read signs I'll probly end up pissing off the fiance by takng the groom to every strip club in Hamilton, so yes it may actually last
2006-10-14 22:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Clayton B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie? I'm not sure what you mean by next step but.... Follow your heart and if anything else does happen, and it most likely will by 15, use protection. Now, let us crunch the numbers. Most high school sweethearts don't last (1% is kind of disheartening, don't you think?). This sound like a first love thing. Don't give it too much credence because it probably won't last. I hate to tell you that, but I don't hate telling you the truth. Good luck sweetie.
2006-10-14 21:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your jumping the gun. I won't give you the whole speach your too youg. However I will say this you are 14, don't rush growing up. Take your time, and if this is truly love. Let love take its own course. In my own experience with relationship the best one's were the relationships I didn't rush, but took my time. If he loves you back he will let you know. However don't rush because he might get scared. A lot of young men fear committment so don't rush. Breathe, and enjoy your life while your young. Please don't rush to grow up because you could miss what is really important in life...That is to be fruitful, and to make you mark. Good luck!!!
2006-10-14 21:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by foxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey.. I dont think your that one.. I was 14 and in love once.. and now I'm 20 and in love with someone else, with moany others in between.. Youre probably going to have many loves.. relax.. theres no rush.. enjoy being 14.. it only happens once.
And if you go out with him much longer it'd going to be difficult to avoid the "sex and stuff".. so dont do anything you dont wanna do.. theres a million great guys out there.. and you'll meet a lot of em..
be happy you are young.
2006-10-14 21:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me you are not the lucky one that gets married to that guy. just don't go into the s*x stuff, just like you said. it might s**ew your life up really bad. might end up with a kid at 14-15 and then what??! just think about it. stay where you are in the relationship and wait and see where it goes, maybe couple months from now you stop likeing each other. you never know.
2006-10-14 21:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your to young don't go for next step hes waiting for it sometimes a guys can't wait any longer your lucky hes still saving it ..but i'd say wait alittle longer you'll be more mature.... good luck
2006-10-14 21:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your thinking of having sex underage then as long as your both sure your ready for it and do it safely. Easiest thing to do is to talk about it with him. Your bf also needs to be underage too. Your gonna hear a lot of morons tell you your too young and that its illegal but theres absolutley no reason you shouldn't as long as your safe and are both emotionally ready for it.
2006-10-14 21:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will know when you're ready to take the next step, and you will recognise the moment. Just know it's a decision you have to live with for all your life. =)
2006-10-14 21:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by boo! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your too young,
You will have many loves over the years this is just the first one!!
2006-10-14 21:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you as much as you like him you both will wait and take it slow. You will soon learn that there is more to a relationship besides sex.
2006-10-14 21:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by lisa t 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋