well..there's a girl i really like, and she likes me. We've been seeing each other for a few weeks now, and it was going great. Friday she tells me she doesn't want to mess me around, but she's not sure what she wants. Wanted to end it because she doesn't "feel it". We met up last night and talked it over (sort of) and we agreed to cool things down and see where it goes. The thing is I'm absolutely crazy about her. She's funny, witty, smart, beautiful and distracting.....what do i do? I don't want give up on her but i don't want to put her under any pressure...she sort of knows how i feel, but i feel lost and need some help...
2006-10-14 21:44:16 · 8 answers · asked by binary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know how she feels.....
pretty rare that i go mad on anyone.....
even if i think they're ace.
just be friends with her.
but if you really are in love with her then you'd better stay away from her, you'll end up getting hurt.....
2006-10-15 10:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously she doesn't feel quite the same for you as you do for her. You are in love, whereas she doesn't seem to be. It means that you have to court her all over again and actually, you are in a good position for doing just that as you are now friends and still see each other like friends. If there is anybody who likes you perhaps you should mention it to her to see her reaction. If she is jealous it is a good sign.
2006-10-15 04:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by EC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don’t be such a sap!!! This girls obviusley no good for u. she’s not interested in anything more than freindship from u, kick her to the curb dude!! ur not so sad and desperete that you cant get anyone else are you?….theres plenty of fish in the sea!!! u will find someone else, u do sound a nice guy, too nice for that *****! dont show her that ur vunerable and dont let yourself get played.
2006-10-15 12:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just like you said, cool things down and see where it goes. Maybe she wants more out of the relationship but is afraid or it. Maybe she is lost just like you are. Just take it easy
2006-10-15 04:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soo just chill. Doesnt sound like she's going anywhere soon. Neither are you. Be happy when you get a chance to spend time together and concentrate on the present. :)
2006-10-15 04:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to act like you can handle life without her don't be all up in her grill expecting for things to be the same as before, and then you can just be consistent in your friendship with her and let her fall for you because of your stability.
she could be just testing you and playing a role to see what it will do so becareful she could be playing games.
2006-10-15 04:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then cool it for a while...But dont wait to long....
2006-10-15 04:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not int in you, she is trying to let you down gently!!
2006-10-15 04:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋