He was my everything. He was my life. He said he love me. I believed. We were terrific 2gether. But we split all because of him, it was hard but i learnt to survive. Now after all these time he phone me tell me he loves me and misses me. I would do anything to be with him again but he lied to me before and i dont trust him no more, since he is involve with someone else. He phone every single day. I know we wont be again, i still love him but dont want to give in, cause he will just leave me again. Eversince he left im not the same not happy. But i dont want him back. What do i do, I want him and dont want him. I feel so funny, so lost without love. Where to from here?
2006-10-14 21:38:55 · 13 answers · asked by matrix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who says he won't do it again... find someone new...move on.....do not dwell on him...he is stressing you out. move on from this relationship and be with friends and family for support....time heals, don't let his recent communications set you back...do not communicate with him.....move on.
2006-10-14 21:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right to trust your instinct and lessons learnt from past experience. He had his chance with you but he blew it and broke ur trust n heart.
Now, altho you feel lonely ( the reason why U think u miss him), you must be strong and not get entangled with him any more. This unhappiness u feel now will disappear after a few more months, but u must also do ur part to go out with new people and dun get stuck in depression. You have friends who will see u thru this lousy time.
Just be wise and recognise that all his phone calls are not sincere. You must protect your heart and be smart for yourself.
Remember, YOU don't want him back okay?
2006-10-14 21:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play him at his very own pastime. This boy sounds very immature and in all probability does not comprehend what he stands to lose. He thinks he can mess you around and you will nonetheless be there whilst he comes working decrease back. tell him you like him, yet he has harm you and you're perplexed so which you like some area to think of issues by way of. Then pass out and characteristic some relaxing, possibly date different human beings and make him sweat somewhat. If he extremely loves you this could be a huge awaken call and he will initiate treating you with the honour you deserve. sturdy luck and that i desire you ultimately finally end up happy the two way!
2016-10-02 07:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be hurt and feel sad for a while, most people who break up do. You deserve someone who will want to be with you, love you and not lie. You will find that person, trust me. I broke up with a girlfriend i had for two years, i was In love with her and she hurt me. I wanted something better than lies and hurt, and i will find it, you have to be patient, your love will come.
2006-10-14 21:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Baba Ganoush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ever in doubt, then don't do it. It sounds like you have already answered your own question. You don't want him back because you don't trust him. Love hurts sometimes. The rest is up to you to decide.
2006-10-14 21:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he showed his true self by running out probably what happened is that the other gf didn't work out and u are his back up u should tell him to stop calling and if he keeps call file a restraining order nothing good can come of this
2006-10-14 21:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him the chance to plant a seed of doubt in you. Tell him you appreciate his amiable gesture to stay friends after the break up, but it's NOT healthy to call you everyday.
2006-10-14 21:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by boo! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear you don't want to be with him and how much he hurt you.
This guy hurt you badly and you started moving on until he came back into your life. You have to stand up for yourself and tell him your feelings and how he messed up. Move on wtih your life.
2006-10-15 00:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by Strange1am 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't trust him now you never will you gotta make your own decision but that's just what i know from experience
2006-10-14 21:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by jaymzknowsitbest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can enter into relationship if ur environment permits it.
2006-10-14 21:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋