well,he s my online friend and lives very very away 4m me...and i showed him some body else s picture...and said its mine...it was like 4 months ago...nw we are great friends...and i think i love him..i would hav chat wid him using wbcam....but i had lied to him ...dat i look very prietty...when im not....but he also likes me as a nice person....and to me his is a world now....pls suggest me what shall i do now....
2006-10-14 21:33:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so pretty yourself up and build yourself up with some affirmations about yourself that will make you feel and start to look sexy....beauty is in the eye of the beholder,....give this person a chance to decide for himself.
Be yourself,.....that is all that you have, just do your best and that is good enough and if he doesn't like that then he is not good enough for you, cuz the one for you will love you even at your ugliest , you know why? cuz its not about the looks its about feeling the love of the other person in the heart.....and nothing can stop love.
2006-10-14 21:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder whether he has been truthful to you about his looks, age, job and so on. Many tell little white lies to their online friends and I think it is even expected. Are the lies not so little, but on the contrary major ones you have a problem that will not go away by itself. My advice is that before you use the webcam you should have told him that you are not the person in the picture, that you borrowed it from somebody to slur your identity on the net and then do what you can to look nice when the webcam is turned on.
2006-10-14 21:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by EC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you shouldn't have lied but since you can't take it back, what I think you might try is tell him he needs to brace himself for something that you are going to tell him.
Tell him you got off on the wrong foot by lieing to him, see how he reacts. If he takes it hard but still wants to be with you then don't lie to him again.
However I will say that you might've done a good thing by lieing to him also. If you've never met him, you don't know what he's really like. If the person doesn't like you for who you are.
They aren't worth your time. Hope this helps.
2006-10-14 21:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confess it now, he'll either take you as you are, or break it off, either way, it will relieve your stress to get this off your back. If he really cares for you, maybe he can forgive and forget....it's not the end of the world to misrepresent yourself on line, I think nowadays people expect it, but now would be the time to tell the truth. Good luck.
2006-10-14 21:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have lied, that is one thing that will turn us gentlemen away. When it comes to us, truth and honesty is what we seek in our lady, not whats on the outside, but whats in her heart. If I were you I would send him an e-mail, that explains what you did, and tell him if he's very upset, you'll understand. this way he can contact you, and he probably will, especially if he likes you as a nice person, he'll appreciate the honesty.
2006-10-14 21:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best you can do is to tell him the truth. Please, keep in mind though, that men are visual creatures. Physical beauty, while not everything, count, just as financial resources counts for most women (understandably so). You knew that already, though, or you wouldn't have sent someone else's pic.
He'll either accept the real you and the fact that you deceived him, or he won't.
Good luck to you and please don't do it to another guy!
2006-10-14 21:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a email no chat room (but the next one will be hard for you) and say " to _ im soory :( i lied to u by sending u someone elses pic and it was wrong but i didnt want to loose u here is a pic of the real me this time and i hope u forgive me
Sorry
_
2006-10-14 21:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are going to have to tell him the truth if you want somethng more than a friendship. I am pretty sure if the two of you met, he would notice that wasn't you and you would be making a complete fool of yourself.
2006-10-14 21:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight. It shall let both of you find out - it is love or just infatuation. If it is love, he would'nt mind your lie. If it is infatuation, you can still decide to keep on playing the "time-pass" game. No harm done.
2006-10-14 21:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by nisar2211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should own up, sooner rather than later.
He might be mad. But it would be best to get it over and done with.
Next time, just send your picture, if the guy is too shallow to appreciate you, he isn't worth your time.
2006-10-14 21:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋