When I have sex with my soulmate, I feel like his spirit is trying to fight mine the next day; I get depressed

Question

It happens without fail; I am completely void of energy and am depressed the day after. I feel completely low. I cry uncontrollably. I feel like I have been the receptor for whatever negative energy he battles with, and I feel it trying to take me under and battle my soul. The first time, I thought it was me, because we were virgins; we were both 29, and I didn't know what to expect. We are 31 now and have only tried maybe two more times, and every single time, I have the same experience. He, on the other hand, always feels that a great weight has been lifted off his shoulder. I don't understand why this happens, but it brings me to my lowest point spiritually, physically and emotionally. I feel like something in him is trying to kill me. Is this odd?? Has anyone felt this?? I waited my entire life to be with the one that was meant for me. He walked into my life claiming to have been sent by God, but something feels so wrong when we are together like that.

Answer 1

You know, there should be licences to have sex, and you should have to pass a psychiatric exam and an IQ test to get one.

Answer 2

Soul mates are like yin and yan, often taking and learning from each other, which is not always easy. But it is something that must be done to allow the souls to grow. you need to have move sex to reach a higher spiritual level. Good luck and God speed.

Answer 3

whoa thats cool yall have sex with spirit energy lol thats like tha coolest thing in the world next to playin video games
thats wierd tho how do yall do that?

oh yeah and if a guy walks into your life claimin to be sent by god those are usually the guys you gotta watch out for it could be the opposite u know?

i believe what you say whole heartedly and i dont think your crazy at all

Answer 4

If something feels wrong, don't do it. Your body is crying for you to stop having sex with this person. If you feel negative energy from him, by all means, please, please stop this relationship. It seems that your energy is being drained. I am very sorry to say this, but if you have these uncontrollable feelings of depression and constant crying episodes, it's your body's way of telling you to stop this relationship; he is obviously not your soulmate.

Sex between people who truly love each other never results in negative feelings like this. There is something terribly wrong when you feel that "something in him is trying to kill you." Just observe your true feelings. If it makes you feel bad, please don't do it.

Answer 5

I didn't see the word "married" anywhere. Should I assume you are fornicating with your "soulmate"? Sin has that effect. That's why God who loves us commands us not to do it.

Answer 6

he sounds like a **** - who in the hell would claim to be sent by 'God'? kick his *** to the curb, hes not the one for u

Answer 7

i think that's the oddest thing i ever heard but when your doing it think of something else like books or poop, something way off topic of killing or spirits

Answer 8

you are a moron. Stop basing everything in your life on your faith

Answer 9

traditional customs and values that once discouraged premarital sex are all but gone. (Hebrews 13:4 ) A survey in one Asian country revealed that the majority of 15- to 24-year-old males felt that premarital intercourse was not only accepted but expected of them. Little wonder that throughout the world most young people have had sex before they reach 19 years of age.
Then there are youths who refrain from intercourse but who engage in so-called sexual alternatives, such as fondling one another’s sexual organs (sometimes called mutual masturbation). A disturbing report in The New York Times reveals that “oral sex has become a commonplace initiation into sexual activity, widely perceived by many young people as less intimate, and less risky, than intercourse . . . [and] as a means of avoiding pregnancy and of preserving their virginity.”
Just how should a Christian view premarital sex? And what about so-called alternatives to intercourse? Are they acceptable to God? Are they safe? And do they really preserve one’s virginity?
If a youth engaged in any form of fornication, could he or she be considered a virgin in God’s eyes?
An authoritative answer to these questions can come only from our Creator
And in his Word he tells us to “flee from fornication.” (1 Corinthians 6:18) Just what does that mean? The Greek word translated “fornication” is not restricted to sexual intercourse but includes a variety of lewd acts. So if two unmarried people engage in oral sex or in fondling each others’ reproductive organs, they are guilty of fornication.
The Bible exhorts Christians to flee not only from fornication itself but also from all forms of unclean conduct that could lead to it.# (Colossians 3:5 ) Others may ridicule you for taking such a stand. “‘You don’t know what you’re missing!’ is what I heard all through high school,” says a Christian youth named Kelly. However, premarital sex is nothing more than the “temporary enjoyment of sin.” (Hebrews 11:25) It can cause lasting physical, emotional, and spiritual harm.
Serious Threats
The Bible tells us that King Solomon once observed a young man being seduced into premarital sex. Solomon compared the young man to “a bull that comes even to the slaughter.” A bull that is to be butchered seems to have no idea what is about to happen to it. Young ones who engage in premarital sex often behave similarly-they seem to show little or no awareness that there are serious consequences to their actions! Solomon said of that young man: “He has not known that it involves his very soul.” (Proverbs 7:22, 23 ) Yes, your “soul”-your life-is at stake.
For example, each year millions of youths contract a sexually transmitted disease (STD). “When I found out I had herpes, I wanted to run away,” says Lydia. She laments, “It is a painful disease that will never go away.” Over half of all new HIV infections worldwide (6,000 a day) occur among those who are between 15 and 24 years of age.
Females are particularly vulnerable to a host of problems related to premarital sex. In fact, the threat of STDs (as well as HIV) is higher for females than for males. If a young girl becomes pregnant, she places herself and her unborn child at further risk. Why? Because a young girl’s body may not have developed to the point of being able to handle childbirth safely.
Even if a teen mother escapes severe health consequences, she must still face the serious responsibilities that parenthood brings. Many girls find that fending for themselves and for a newborn infant is far more difficult than they had imagined.
Then there are the spiritual and emotional aftereffects. King David’s sexual sin endangered his friendship with God and nearly led to his spiritual ruin. (Psalm 51:1) And while David recovered spiritually, he suffered the consequences of his sin for the rest of his life.
Young ones today can suffer similarly. For example, when she was only 17 years old, Cherie became physically intimate with a boy. She thought he loved her. Years later, she still regrets her actions. She laments: “I took Bible truths for granted and suffered the consequences. I lost Jehovah’s favor, and that was devastating.” A youth named Trish similarly admits: “Premarital sex was the biggest mistake of my life. I would do anything just to be a virgin again.” Yes, emotional wounds can linger for years, causing stress and heartache.
Premarital sex can wound the conscience of a God-fearing youth
Learning Self-Control
Young Shanda raises an important question, “Why would God give young people sexual desires, knowing that they should not use them until after marriage?” It is true that sexual desires can be particularly strong during “the bloom of youth.” (1Corinthians 7:36) In fact, teenagers may experience sudden sexual arousal for no seeming reason. But this is not something wicked. It is a normal part of the development of the reproductive system.%
It is also true that Jehovah designed sexual relations to be pleasurable. This was in harmony with his original purpose for humans to populate the earth. (Genesis 1:28) Nevertheless, God never intended for us to misuse our procreative powers. “Each one of you should know how to get possession of his own vessel in sanctification and honor,” says the Bible. (1 Thesalonians5:5) To act upon every sexual desire would be, in a sense, as foolish as hitting someone each time you felt anger.
Sexual relations are a gift from God, a gift that is to be enjoyed at the appropriate time-when one is married. How does God feel when we try to enjoy sex outside of marriage? Well, imagine that you have purchased a gift for a friend. Before you can give it to that friend, he or she steals it! Wouldn’t you be upset? Imagine, then, how God feels when a person engages in premarital sex, abusing the gift that God has provided.
What should you do about your sexual feelings? Put simply, learn to control them. Remind yourself that “Jehovah himself will not hold back anything good from those walking in faultlessness.” (Psalm 84:11 ) “When I find myself thinking that premarital sex would not be so bad,” says a youth named Gordon, “I reflect on the bad spiritual consequences and realize that no sin is worth the loss of my relationship with Jehovah.” Exercising self-control may not be easy. But as young Adrian reminds us, “it leaves you with a clean conscience and a good relationship with Jehovah, free to focus on the more important things, with no guilt or remorse for past actions.”-Psalm 16:11.
There are many good reasons for you to “abstain from fornication” in all its various forms. (1 Thessalonians 4:3) Admittedly, this is not always easy.1Timothy 5:22 .

Answer 10

wow....all this drama for sex? are one of you gay?