does it bother you if she does. I just asked a question about why won't he kiss me, and besides my breath smelling bad (according to the answers I got) it's because kissing me could mean it's official or that he is conveying to me that we are committed. I did ask him where is this going, but have not gotten an answer yet because he went out of town. I said to him if this is not going any where then I am walking away no hard feelings, and you wont feel any pressure because I will be the one walking away, but then he always ask me is that what I want. I feel it must be what he wants if he can't give me an answer, and now that I know him not kissing me is because he does not want to seal the deal so to speak how come when I say I am walking away he doesn’t just let me by saying ok. He turns it around on me and ask me if that is really what I want. Why does he do that. Since he wont say I want out help me read between the lines because I have said I will be ok if he wants out.
2006-10-14 20:01:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have good communication to a point where he knows there is not going to be any drama if he wants out, and yes I have already given up on this situation, I just want to know why didn’t he just come out and say I don’t want to be in this. Why do men do that.
2006-10-14 20:01:34 · update #1
Men feel that women try to trick/confuse them this same way. And as a guy, I really believe it's true of most women, while most men are more straightforward. Why not be straightforward yourself and kiss HIM?
2006-10-14 20:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by catniplles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't want to hurt your feelings by being the one to break it off. He's probably a nice guy and likely to be a good friend, for now. Either way, it's time for you to move on. Tell him yes, it is what you want and then just give him the "kiss of death" (I think it would be better if we were just friends).
2006-10-14 20:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you were walking away,well do it,he will not and that way when he is asked he can say it was your choice.just walk away,no hard feelings
2006-10-14 20:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by dona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he asks if that is what you want ....tell him...if the answer is no ...ok....then ask him what he wants...and tell him what you do want and expect from him...if he is not willing to give you what you want and need...then i would dump him
2006-10-14 20:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋