I really do love my gf and I know she loves me too but I think she wants something different out of life than what I am looking for. Do I ask her? Do I set her free? I don't want to feel like I am the only one trying for what i want.
2006-10-14 19:58:52 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 30, she is 31, but I think we are both still enjoyig the end of our youths.
2006-10-14 20:04:28 · update #1
okay first off to have a successful relationship you need to communicate....so just ask her....and if she feels diff then you need to make that choice...could you be with someone who doesnt feel the same???? hope i helped
2006-10-14 20:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by *VodkaTonic* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It hurts when the only thing not going right has to do with goals, morals and beliefs instead of infedelity, etc. But if you love a person, those major obsticles can mean the difference of being together for ever, or fooling yourself. I wish you would have been a little more detailed in your question, but if you honestly believe that her difference in interest will conflict in the future, then maybe you should break it off. My ex was not as ambitious, or goal oriented as I am. People who take pride in work, work hard, and people who dont, dont really understand the effort and sacrifice in accomplishing most goals, and one day will take things for granted because they know no better. it sucks, but I know this was going to happen with my ex. Think about all the negative if your heart wants to let go but your brain is telling you its mean.
2006-10-15 03:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by Brown Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate this to her, is being only friends the end to love?.
It could just be that it might bring you closer together in what you think you may need or want. Time has a way of bringing things back around. If it's meant to be. I AM. S
2006-10-15 03:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on your ages. If you are both young it is best to cut it off now. You have your lives ahead of you and you should find someone who is compatible to share them.
If you are mature, you look at dating and marriage in a different way. You can blend your lives a little easier.
2006-10-15 03:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her...if u find she is not looking for the same things you do then i would suggest you move on now instead of later...you might be surprised by her answer though if you actually ask her
2006-10-15 03:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, find out what it is she wants. then go from there.
2006-10-15 03:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by hex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not into her should let her go.Maybe it want meant to be
2006-10-15 03:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by gurrlllll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...
2006-10-15 03:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by Ah Fye . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋