I know it sounds cliche/emo, but I am getting tired of the same old same old that happens to me. I try to be the best person i can be, but nothing really works.... Anyone have some sage advice that can help?
2006-10-14 19:30:03 · 13 answers · asked by Trey123 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
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sad because bad things are always happening
2006-10-14 19:37:39 · update #1
Its the only life we have, and you have to make the most out of it...i know that sometimes it is hard, but we are so lucky to be here and share our lives with the eople we love...i know its corney, but as someone who has buried a mom,. dad, and husband..dont take it for granted
2006-10-14 19:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is this. The things that happen to you sometimes suck, but you will get to where your supposed to go, after dealing with these hard times. They are lessons. I had, and have them, and finally at 28 I can start putting the puzzle together a little bit. Please belive me it sucks a lot, and its hard as hell. You will get through it, and it will happen again. Eventually you will look back and say.. If I didn't go through that, I wouldn't have this... Which will be your future. Keep your head up, and walk through, and you will get what is waiting for you...
Keep being a good person. People may walk all over you.. I know this from the steps, and stabs on my back from those who I gave my time, and emotions too. In the end, you will get what you deserve for being a good person. There are people out there that appreciate people like you. I am one of them.
I wish you luck. Carry something that means something to you close. Sometimes that helps, even if it is just mental..
K done babbling.
2006-10-15 02:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by idontknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You try to be the best that you can be? I doubt that. because that's how I kill the boredom. I wanted to shoot myself from sheer repetition last year. Then, I started to practice guitar when I got bored. Sure, doing scales for three hours doesn't sound like fun, so i didn't do that. I learned songs and then played scales when i wanted to get better. Trust me. Trying to achieve something makes you break the cycle. all you need is a taste of victory and you'll want more. Same for me. So find something you like, and when you get tired of life, start to practice it, or get better at it, etc. You'll be happy. As for bad luck, well, that's life. It's no one's fault really, that's just the way things turned out. What you can do, is try to control the outcomes. Let's say you ask a girl out. don't just sit there for two days waiting for her answer, send her flowers and write her a heartfelt poem. or write her a song. Girls love that. Be extraordinary, and life will be good to you.
2006-10-15 02:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by theshrabster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can suck sometimes. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Try to laugh your way out of bad times. God knows I've had enough happen in my life to make a standup comedy routine...
2006-10-15 02:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by northernbornsoutherner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something exciting or interesting. Go on a vacation. See the world. Or join the Peace Corps. They say it is the hardest job you will ever love. If you want your life to stop being ordinary and predictable, be and do extraordinary things.
2006-10-15 02:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by vanity planning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get out of life what you put into it.
As far as advice, you need to be more specific with what you are having trouble with.
Are you getting bored and need excitement? Or are you sad because bad things are always happening? I couldn't understand your post.
2006-10-15 02:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to work with me and see what I see, I am an RN and work in the AIDS unit, all my patients would love to have your issues. Enjoy life, even when it is not the greatest. Be good to yourself. Good luck sweetie!
2006-10-15 02:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by DONNA'S NIGHTMARE COME TRUE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try something new and different from your usual routine. For example, if you go home after your work by driving, maybe you should think about taking subway or bus to go home. Try something new and different (even just one), and you might feel better.
2006-10-15 02:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i have been there and then one day i woke up and said F this. from then on i did things my way and did it all for me and my own. i feel better. try it it may work for you .
2006-10-15 03:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the harder you try the worse your life will get. SO I would strongl suggest you just live your life as it should always be....
2006-10-15 02:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Khairudin Bin Salim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋