here i go again..this guy didnt call me or text me now coz the other day we were talking and i was not on the good mood. he said he will call me on that night afterr his activity. i was waiting for his call since he is doing this everyday. but i didnt get any from him so i decided to text him then call. he was not replying but i know he is still awake that time. so i text him saying whats wrong again? i told him that does it mean he will just talk to me if he wanted to nad will not if he doesnt want to talk to me. i told this to him coz thats what i feel. but he didnt reply or text me until now. last night i text him to apologize coz i think that i might upset him but until now i dont get sms or call from him. i like him and enjoying his company which i know he feels the same. but why is it he is not calling me anymore? do u think he would still call me? what should i do?
2006-10-14 19:22:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and this makes me so uncomfortable. it gives me sleepless night... please help me.
2006-10-14 19:26:33 · update #1
I agree You need to take several steps back and calm down. You are all over this guy, and that is truly a turn off for guys, unless they are controlling. Many times We worry about things that should never be even considered, much less worried about. You my dear, need to work on You. Find something to do, so Your not just hovering over the phone, and freaking out for no reason. If He decides You are too much trouble, He is going to move right on along. You have to be ready for a relationship. Sounds like Your kinda Young. Talk to Your Dad, or find a strong Male role model that You respect and talk to Them about guys, and tell Them You need to hear the truth. Read a book, join a class, do some volunteer work, something, and CALM down, please. Just remember, Good things...come to Those...who wait.
2006-10-14 19:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, sweet heart, first things first. Men are different to women, very different. They think differently, they feel differently, they even communicate differently.
Now, you running after him and texting him over and over again is going to drive him insane, simply because you are getting emotional and clingy. Men cannot handle woman's emotional bull sh*t! That's for your girlfriends.
Now, what to do: back off, don't phone or text him anytime soon. If you see him, play it cool and don't ask him why he didn't phone you etc. It may surprise you, but he was probably just tired and busy. Women often make the mistake of overdramatising and over emotionalising things to do with men. Take control of your emotions, especially if you want it to work with this man...
I wish you luck, sweetie.
2006-10-14 19:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Gillian003 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh honey,how i felt what u feel,it's happened to me after all this time.1 thing that u have to do for men is always be careful,sometimes there's a man who don't like girl who like to mad,are u sure if he felt the same way,ask him,don't be afraid,make damn sure.trust me if he really feel the same he'll send u sms and call u again,trust me,but if he never do this,just forget about him,he don't accept u as u are.the first thing that u have to do is ask about his feeling,good luck
2006-10-14 19:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by JEANNY G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a good nights sleep and give this poor guy a break, you may not be on top of his list of thing he must do
2006-10-14 19:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
jus leave him, forget him.....i knw its difficlt to face bt he'snt replng u evn after ur apologies, dat means either he hs found sm other gal or he wnts u to becm desperate for him...... watever b d reasn, end it up befor he insults u anymor
2006-10-14 19:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
chill, give him time and space. if he still wants to go out w/you, then he will eventually call. don't get all leechy and freak him out. he has a life, you know- you're not everything. (sorry)
2006-10-14 19:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by hex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i was him i wouldne call, your sending to many messages, he may think your clingy, needy or even crazy....Just let this one go, there are to many guys out there....
2006-10-14 19:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UHHH... Go a little slower psycho!
Chill out. If you ignore him he'll crawl back.
Us guys are stupid that way.
2006-10-14 19:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by ripperdear6766 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have done plenty
to show him how you feel
leave him alone for a few days
he needs time to think
2006-10-14 19:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he will call just wait he is just thinking if you're mad with him or anything thats why he didn't call
2006-10-14 19:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixwolf388 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋