A Question only for men regarding being a butterfly......?

Question

I am just curious, these questions are not to be posed as sarcarstic but MEN ARE SOMETIMES LIKENED TO A BUTTERFLY COZ THEY DO NOT STAY WITH ONE FLOWER, THEY HAVE AS MANY AS THEY WANT.. I just said SOMETIMES not ALL THE TIME okay? Most men would like to have as many women as they can on their belt.. now,,, why is that??? Coz I do not see the logic behind it..I mean, does it make you more of a man to have many GF's or many one night stands??? Does it feel better? Does life gets better with more women??? You tell me....as I am not a man.

Thank you all for your answers.

Answer 1

It's all in the genes. Biologically the best way for a man to reproduce is to have sex as frequently as possible and to come to a quick orgasm so the man can move on. So yes some men, especially the immature ones, can be like butterflies moving from encounter to encounter. It isn't because we are pigs, it's because your designing makes us look for sex. Since becoming teenagers the average man has sex on his mind 52% of the time (episode of 20/20 aired on ABC on Sept. 30, 2006).

A man wants sex as often as a woman wants to have a conversation, and for the exact same reasons.

Men are fairly simple creatures; it's in our biology. Men are geared to reproduce quickly and often. That is why sex can be so short for us; and why a picture of a hot woman is enough to get a man aroused. Men are capable of multiple relationships with multiple women. They can stay in a serious relationship, but only if they are willing to make the commitment. The biggest problem with men is that they often think with their lower head, rather than the one that sits on top of their neck.

Women are more complicated. They need to carry a baby to term and raise it. A picture of a hot man can get some women excited, but not for long--they need a relationship. They want to know a man, and they want to be able to trust him to possibly raise a child. Women are geared to hunt for a mate that they can raise a child with; it's in their biology. Women want a stable relationship with one man. A woman often seems to get less out of sex because their biology requires either multiple sessions or they require a longer session to insure that the male has a better chance of putting his sperm where it can create a child. This explains the women’s greater need for foreplay. They need to build up to a climax.

Humans are one of the few creatures that are always in “season.” A human can breed all year round. This makes it better for the male to spread his genes, and lets the woman use the allure for sex to hold on to their mate. When sex becomes less frequent the male’s attention may wander. Generating sperm is easy to do, and men do it in the thousands for most of their lifespan. Women have a set number of eggs and a period of youth and adult stages when they can get pregnant. Carrying a baby to term is a difficult, and often dangerous task, one that can only be attempted by someone who is very fit. This is why women have menopause and why after a time sex starts to lose its attraction.

Some women are attracted to the dangerous man. While at first this doesn't seem like a good idea, the dangerous man is more likely to win in any competition. If a woman is with such a man then she can be assured that another man won't try to take her away from him. Again it's all in the biology. Look at the lion pride. The strongest male has a harem of females. He gets them pregnant and they raise their cubs. The male has to defend himself against other rival males. He spends most of the night making loud growls to show the others that he is the dominant male, and he will fight off any competing males. When a new male takes over, the first thing he does is to kill all the old male's cubs. This puts the females into heat, and he can breed with them.

Unfortunately, since women are complex creatures they think that men are. This can lead to a lot of misunderstandings. Men are simple creatures; they look for the simple and straightforward solution of problems. Since men are less complicated then women we tend to have problems understanding them. Complexity doesn’t mean smarter than simple, it means that a different approach is being used.

Men like sports because it is a trial by combat. They may claim other reasons, but the most basic one is the combat. A male biology gears the man to be able to defeat his rivals and hold on to his mate(s). This is why men are better fighters.

Humans may be reasoning and intelligent beings, but they still have the same instincts that they started with. We are a lot closer to animals than we think. The difference between humans and the animals is that mankind can rise above their instincts. We can use tools, and change the environment to suit us. Once that happened though mankind became immune to evolution. We can attempt to improve the breed, weed out problem genes, and turn others on or off, but we cannot escape our instincts.

Our intelligence lets us rise above our instincts. A woman can be a soldier, but she may prefer a more caring approach. A man can be a homemaker, but he may prefer to go out into the wild and hunt (he often does this by getting a job). Women and men can do each other’s jobs, but their biology has defined roles for them and their instincts have to be overcome.

A 2006 from the University of California determined that women and men handle the pain of Wisdom Teeth Removable about the same, but some of the pain medication was more effective on women, and some of it seemed to increase the pain in the men; the conclusion was that women and men might handle pain differently in the brain. This disproves the myth that women can handle more pain then men. However, I have to give credit to those women who have given birth to a child and women may have had to handle more pain then most men.

Answer 2

Wow, that is some post! Allow me to shed some light on this...

First of all, are we talking about males below 20 years? If so, then that would be some of the talk you would tend to hear them say. Guys tend to do a lot of bragging about their "parts" or their "prowess" at that age, but most times it is only to "talk it up" to the other males, hiding a lot of insecurity within. See, guys are wired differently than gals -- they mature more later than them and they tend to be competitive with each other. Showing or expressing feelings (something gals are good at) are somewhat frowned upon.

Now if we are talking about males over 20, then maybe you might be hanging out with the wrong crowd of males. A mature male would have already chunked the overblown ego and replaced it with a desire to really find a great person to get to know better.

Now, if your feelings for men in general have been sullied by the actions of a few, then I apologize that you have not been treated as a lady. There are real gentlemen out there who probably would love to meet you and treat you as one!

Good luck!

Answer 3

Men instinctively want to spread their seed to as many as possible... human nature. It takes a conscious effort to overcome this. Some men are better at it than others.

Answer 4

I think you mean a man likened to a 'bee' honey.
;) Flitting from flower to flower drinking honey.

Answer 5

we are very sexual by nature. it's not men in general, but the hormones that we produce that makes us that way. chemical reactions that occur when we see an attractive female that are released that make us lust for particuliar women.

Answer 6

men are visual and not emotional. spreading pollen throughout the garden is a natural instinct.

Answer 7

Of course it makes life better... a conquest is a conquest...

Answer 8

i dont understand it either and i am a guy