I'm 22-creative thoughtful truthful smart college grad with a good job...and i don really dig the whole club scene(im out of that phase except to socialize with friends) so why does it seem so impossible to meet a nice guy?
2006-10-14 18:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by Heidi C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you stop looking- become comfortable in just being you- the right guy will suddenly show up. Once you are at that point you may even wonder if he is the one. Then you will know you are finally at peace.
2006-10-14 18:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be truthful nice guys are always hard to find because these days guys that are good looking never have a personality most of the time they just have to big of an ego I would say if your looking for a nice guy don't look just give it time mr right will come to you. There are nice guys they just don't like the club scene much like you so that's why it's hard to meet them but eventually you will. Good Luck
2006-10-14 18:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Esther V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see how close I come to your ideal... Smart: I'm fairly intelligent. Motivated to suceed: I can be. Funny/ nice laugh: I can be funny sometimes, usually unintentionally. Great personality: Sure. Athletic/athletic body: I'm not terribly athletic. Supportive of my goals/education: Sure. Understanding/respectful: Usually. NOT clingy: Not in the least! Gorgeous smile/white teeth: My teeth are a little nicotene-stained. Mature (like no HS bull): I left high-school BS behind a long time ago. Cute: I wouldn't describe myself as "cute," but I ain't ugly. STYLE Hollister/preppy jeans: Forget it; I wear Levi's or Wranglers Volcom/preppy shirts: Again, forget it; when I can be bothered to put on a shirt, it's a T-shirt or a non-preppy button-up. Vans/sandals: I only wear boots. Aviators: My shades are Ray-Bans. Beanies: Only if it's really friggin' cold out! Longish hair, its not a must: Good; I keep mine short! Obviously, I'm not your dream guy. I know my dream girl doesn't exist, and I'm okay with that. Lesson learned? It's a series of compromises. Concentrate more on personality, and maybe the one or two style aspects that you feel are most important. And don't make finding a boyfriend priority number one; if you're anything like me, it'll happen when you least expect it.
2016-03-28 09:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look in the right places to find the nice guys. you also have to give up the idea that you have to have a "hot" guy. Hot guys ate too busy looking at themselves in the mirror to ever care for another person.
Get out and go to the library, gym, hobby clubs, lectures, and interest group meetings. Be willing to accept a "6" and love him for the person inside the body.
2006-10-14 18:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are all at church praying they'll find a nice girl...
I know that's tongue in cheek, but it does tell you something... That you need to figure out what you want in a guy and since you are smart.. You should be able to figure out WHERE to find them...
You want a smart guy? Library... University...
2006-10-14 18:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing like nice guy thing the only thing is the guy should be cpmatible to u @the only thing is u haven hit the right guy!be patient u fell find one
2006-10-14 18:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by mohit j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my cuz whos lik 23 is a nice guy
2006-10-14 18:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by what?! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY brothers are nice guys
2006-10-14 18:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do but they are just too busy dating girls who treat them like crap. I found one so there is some!! =)
2006-10-14 18:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im here anytime you need! give it a try!
2006-10-14 18:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by hoangt143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋