Why m I thinking bout him if he broke up w/me? He hardly calls me and all i want 2 do is stop thinking bout him cause he probably
doesnt even remember that I excist!
2006-10-14 17:56:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can not bear to see a girl get hurt.
Some *** holes are like that. You have met a wrong person. learn this lesson and find someone who will cherish you. Make sure you don't fall for guy like this anymore.
For now, go to a trip or picnic or somewhere you have not been before. Take some new classes and learn something new. Meet some new friends and you should be fine.
Time does heal.
2006-10-14 18:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he knows you exist. It's okay to keep thinking about him. However long it takes you ... that's healthy. You stated that he broke up with you. When relationships end abruptly by one person's actions, the other person may not quite understand why the relationship ended. There may have been so loose ends as to where the relationship was going ... you probably thinking that it was going one way and to mysteriously find out that it wasn't. If he calls 'sometimes' try asking him ... what went wrong. If you don't hear from him ... take it as it is and try your best to move on. But don't feel bad for thinking about him a lot though he was the one that broke up with you. What you're feeling right now is exactly how you should feel.
2006-10-15 01:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Fiusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just broke up with you, of course it is a natural occurrence to think of him even after the relationship has dissolved. I am certain that he hasn't forgotten about you but perhaps he hasn't called because there's a time and place for everything.
Time heals all wound. He isn't ready to talk to you right now and neither are you ready to talk to him. With the passage of time, you will notice that your thoughts of him will diminish slowly but surely.
Rest assure that you will find love again. You may not feel that way now, but you will. I've been in your shoes before and I recovered just fine. I am now married for 7 years with two boys.
2006-10-15 01:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to replace old memories is with new ones. You need to make a plan for yourself even if it's only a 6 month plan. Get yourself distracted the very best you can because it is very hard on the heart when someone you love doesn't love you back. You'll get through this though because women are strong. Get out there and catch up with your life, it's moving along without you.
2006-10-15 01:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by JennieLouie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because you still have a thing for him. it happends to every1 after a break up. just go out to the clubs..go shopping.. and have fun because in time you will feel better. a heart doesnt heal over night u know. and u cant fix it with super glue.
2006-10-15 01:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by culbeebabyx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about another guy you like! Try to make him jealiouse and if he is then u know he still likes u!
2006-10-15 00:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by pinkygirl704 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time.
2006-10-15 00:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by stephenjlb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋