Is there ANY men left who look for more in a women besides how hot they look?? I am pretty,but don't have the size 2 body,so I am tired of always getting passed over because of being overweight.I am smart,funny,love sex,and alot of fun but can't find a man to look past the weight issue. I have tried numerous diets and failed,why can't you like a person for who they are instead of their skirt size?? Are there any real men who want a Real women?Serious replies only please!
2006-10-14 17:55:13 · 6 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to your local bar on BBW night. You'll find lots of guys who like big chicks.
2006-10-14 18:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by B. Miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Unfortunately, your size will always be the first thing a person sees.
So you have to try harder to make a second impression. Now, I have seen some very sexy and confident "thick" women who have been very attractive to me. If you are overweight and comfortable with your weight, then you will look ten times better to a man if you are uncomfortable with your weight. Trust me, we can see the difference in the way you carry yourself. Your smile. Eye contact. Are you flirty? All these things go a long way.
2006-10-15 01:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wondered the same thing myself for a long time. Then I met the perfect man for me. He does not care that I am over weight. He is tall and fit, but he loves me for the person inside the body - not the appearance. We are both older and have been married and divorced. We were done playing games and wanted someone who would love us for who we are.
Don't give up hope! Don't settle for less than the best. I had accepted that I would be single the rest of my life, and was content with my situation. Just when I gave up the hope of finding someone he found me.
2006-10-15 01:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to say that I am any different from any other man in the wolrd, but personality does it for me now. I'm 29 now, so looks are not the first thing that I notice anymore. I know its not much of an answer, but there is no right way to answer that kind of question.
2006-10-15 01:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by lwrdimport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, within reason, I don't have a problem with women of any size.
What is your size ?
I'll give you an honest answer..
bgstrong@flash.net
2006-10-15 00:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't go for looks.... i got for personality
2006-10-15 01:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋