until we are forced to go to strip clubs and visit escorts?!
why? why?
2006-10-14 17:50:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, A lot of girls go for typical perveted, sexist, egotistical morons.
However, any girl with a brain wouldn't ignore a nice guy. I think a lot of girls are just stupid.
2006-10-14 17:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, guys, here's the skinny on the nice guy thing...
In truth, women want nice guys. They want someone dependable, funny, and smart. However, you need to get their attention, by being, well, not so nice. Take it from me, fellas. I was a nice guy and I never got anywhere. Then, one day, I said, "i just don't care what I say to women from now on." I didn't mran that I insulted them or anything, but I tried my best to be funny, flattering, a little outrageous, and above all, comfident. If you talk to a girl, flirt with her, act like you can have any girl you want, then ask her out, you will be surprised what results. Now, if you think that I used this to become a "playa," think again. Three days after I made that announcement, I met my future wife, and we have been together for six wonderful years.
Of course, I also met two other women that weekend, but that's beside the point.
Take my advice, and go out on a limb.
2006-10-14 18:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Space Case 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so you say women ignore you. Are you sure every single woman you come across ignores you? Or are you ignoring interest from the ones that are not "perfect".
If every single woman that you have ever met is ignoring you, maybe you need to step up and make yourself seen. We like personality as well as looks.
If possibly you are ignoring some women, then you need to broaden your options. Women, like men, come in different packaging, try out some new wrapping and maybe you will find a treasure inside.
I personally have been in a 5 year relationship with a "nice" guy and he came after me first. I am not one of the "perfect" women, but he found his treasure.
So go out there and look harder, make the first move, and when you do get shot down, try again. Us good ones are out there, just keep looking.
2006-10-14 17:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by meggs2311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the strip clubs and escort services enter another side of mystery to you they hadn't seen in you before because they didn't see the bad boy side, just the "nice guy" side. Which may have been boring to them. But, then they see that "bad boy" side and quit ignoring because they're curious if there is another side to you they haven't seen. If you hook up with one of them I'd tend to think the strip clubs won't be as often as they were!LOL
2006-10-14 17:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by one_sahara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't set the terms or direction when you meet a girl. You must make sure that when you meet a girl, and you come to the fork in the road, you head down the road of "letting her know you're interested romantically" and not the doomed "road of friends".
Strip clubs are expensive. That's money better spent on taking a girl to dinner and telling her she's pretty and some other compliment that will lead you to where you want to go.
2006-10-14 17:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by MH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know this question is starting to get old. first of all escorts? why? strip clubs H E L L YES!!!! nothing wrong with staring at boobs for six or seven hours. dude you can find women who appreciate guys who respect them. you don't have to be a jerkoff to get laid, sometimes it helps but not always the case. hookers, seriously if you are looking for something quick and easy well that is one route to take, although I would not recomend it. do you realize just how many wankers hookers see in a days time. if you are sleazy enough to have sex with a woman who gives you a freebie cuz you are her one hundreth customer, then grow some hair on your balls and act like a d i c k head, until some girl who gets off on being treated like crap comes along. sorry but hookers? that is gross. i am sorry but i am stuck on that one. if you cant rub it out yourself then you are a sad, sad little man
2006-10-14 18:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forced to go to a strip club!!?? WHA? a "nice guy" is gonna wait till he finds a nice girl! and thats it! If you're thinking like that then u must not b as nice as you think you are.
If you are having problems with women just read up a lil bit on how to gain some confidence! Women are attracted to men with confidence!!! it's not about being a "bad boy" it's about being yourself and keeping it real. Also if they arent feeling you then they arent worth your time neways! and just ALWAYS keep that in mind, because it's TRUE! good luck cutie.
2006-10-14 18:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by LaDyLuCk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a minute ..... you're a nice guy who goes to strip clubs and visits escorts???? That just doesn't jive with me.
2006-10-14 17:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cause you're gullible. Don't let em use you and you'll find some friends who love you for who you are.....
If that's all you're good for to these people is an escort, I think it's about time you found someone to escort you....
Pick some different friends, and in the meantime good luck..! ! !
2006-10-14 17:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause women are scandalous as hell, go to a bar alone and see how many talk to ya then go to a bar with a girl and see if you can tell a difference, ill bet you that when you show up with a girl that at least 90% more women will approach you than when your alone
2006-10-14 17:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by sheetmetalroofer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋