2006-10-14 17:48:55 · 16 answers · asked by cold_hearted_bitch91 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
If your boyfriend will not take no for an answer, then things are not likely to get better should you get married. If his only reason for staying with you is sex, if he cannot accept no for an answer, then he is not the sort of man you should be with.
A healthy relationship honors each other's choices. It honors each partners decision to say no. Refusing to accept 'no' for an answer is actually rape. Being compelled to have sex when you don't want to is abuse. If this is going on, get rid of him.
--Dee
2006-10-14 17:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to set boundaries in the relationship and make sure he understands. Then if he crosses the line, it's HIS fault, not yours. Also, don't do anything to purposely lead him on, only to turn him down. If he respects and cares for you, he won't want to do anything to hurt you. If he insists on sex, he wants the sex more than he wants YOU and is a selfish pig. In that case, find another BF who respects your standards and will honor them. It's not fun dating someone when you constantly have to be on your guard or worry about them getting mad at you if they don't get their way.
2006-10-14 17:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you dont want to have sex, then it is no. Regardless of whether he gets mad or not. If he gets mad, then that is a form of intimidation. If he is a gentleman, then he should be okay with it. It takes two to tango not one.
2006-10-14 17:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY NO and if he gets mad then that should tell you that he is in the relationship for just one thing and he would be hitting the highway
2006-10-15 15:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite i may well be mad.... ex or no longer if he's cheated on you as quickly as that's in basic terms a count of time till he does it lower back. you're greater constructive off to chop up from from this relationship earlier he hurts you worse . you're greater constructive off devoid of him ! You deserve much greater .... a dependable guy for one.
2016-12-26 19:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't accept NO as the answer and gets mad he is not worth the trouble as he should respect your wishes if not he doesn't deserve you.
2006-10-14 21:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not ready. If he says no tell him to take a hike.
He might get mad if he only thinks of himself.
2006-10-14 17:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he gets mad that means he's only into you for the sex
2006-10-14 17:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead, just give him a friendly but smile and have a serious face and say, "I'm don't feel like it right now", or "Sorry , I'm not in the mood, maybe later".
2006-10-14 17:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might if you are just dating but you should kick him to the curb if he does. if you guys are more seriious about each other then he shouldnt get mad
2006-10-14 17:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋