I recently started dating a guy. we've only been out twice in the last three weeks. At work he visits my office regularly and he shows signs that he's very interested in me. Whenever we go out it's usually during the week, when I suggest that we go out during the weekend he says that he's too busy.
Whenever, we're together his phone rings continuously sometimes he answers and sometimes he doesn't. Sometimes he will tell me that he's going to call me back and he doesn't. I don't make a big deal about it and as a matter of fact I don't even mention it.
When we first started dating I ask him if he had a girlfriend he replied no....but for some reason my gut instinct is telling me that there is definitely something not right here and if that's the case fine no hard feelings. I wan to know why is this guy practically begging for my affection at work and when we're off work he really is non existence....Please Help with My Question...Thank You
2006-10-14 17:46:05 · 13 answers · asked by Ebonee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my experience, if you think something's wrong, then that's enough. Your intuition is kicking in and setting off alarms. It's hard to simply follow through on your intuition when you feel like you don't have all the facts, but when it comes to relationships the facts aren't the point. What's important is whether you feel you can trust this person. If you feel like this guy isn't being honest with you in the beginning, then that doesn't bode well for a future relationship. Life is too short to spend our valuable time and energy with someone we can't trust, especially since the more time we spend with someone the more attached we get.
Good luck with this and I wish you well.
2006-10-14 17:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not white, i'm Asian, and I've been dating black guys for some time now. I found them a lot like white guys in most regards. Not sure if you relationship has gotten to this stage yet, but I have found most of the black guys I have dated more sexually demanding. They have also been quite satisfying as well. Just be prepared to put in the time if/when the time comes. Not a bad thing!! ;)
2016-03-28 09:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be straight with him. whenever someone calls ask who was it. ask why all the time. and if he asks you why you ask all the time tell him that you think he has another gf. if you really want to know, go into his cell when he doesnt know and check his recent calls and messages. i know that seems a little mean, but if he does have a gf that is worse. plus, there shouldnt be any secrets from you too anyways. it is a relationship. well good luck and take some kind of action.
2006-10-14 17:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by JennyJen91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should trust your instincts ,because it does not sound like this guy is trustworthy.
Why would he show affection at work and not out of work? Because he wants the best of both worlds. Dating more than one is fun......for him, but he is not about to tell you that.
If you think he'll fess up,I highly doubt it.
You sound like a intelligent woman, with great instincts. When someone worthy of you comes around, you will know that too.
2006-10-14 18:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked him if he has a girlfriend, the answer may be no. But, ask if how many females is he currently interacting with and on what levels. This is if you really want to know? If it doesn't feel right, it isn't right.
2006-10-14 17:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by Onjel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is intrusted in you he will make time to be with you when it's good for you. This is a sign he is just not into you or he could be possibly dating someone else the Ba$tard.
2006-10-14 17:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bcuz ur dating someone doesn't mean that you have to consider a future with them. Stop acting like he's your man and stop worrying about what he's doing, just continue to do you and enjoy the time you do spend with him as a friend. If it's meant to be it will be.
2006-10-14 17:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by TiffGoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about you just ask him, instead of looking for the stupid signs... it is a waste of time, seriously. If you are not satisfied with the response then leave him, don't torture yourself.
2006-10-14 17:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by MuzicLv'er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me...he has another woman.
ummm if you just started dating maybe he is dating other women and doesn't consider any of them as girlfriends.....
2006-10-14 17:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by lunarbuni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break this to you but he probably does and that is cheating! You need to get to the bottom of this once and for all!
2006-10-14 17:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋