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No to over weight but I have a tube in my tummy that won't go away with exercise and my breast are very badly scarred with stretch marks. I am very self conscience about this and it is affecting my sex life with my husband

2006-10-14 17:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by Roxy 1 in Beauty & Style Skin & Body Other - Skin & Body

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if you feeling self conscience about your body and its affecting you relationship, and you have been thinking about this for sometime, then I say do it....that is if you are done having kids...no use getting all "fixed" up if your going to have more kids. but if your done having kids I say do it!, I did , and I feel great...

2006-10-14 17:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

HELL YES! Do it! I had my breast done. One thing you need to know that they don't tell you. Your nipples will never be as sensitive as they are now...that is if you have reconstructive surgery,which is what I had and I guess if they do it the same. I would strongly recommend reconstructive,cause they take off the extra skin and boy they wind up being pointers. I had mine done about 20 years ago and they still look great. Make sure you or your husband massage them every night after the doctor says it's okay. This stops the hardness that scar tissue leaves. Make SURE you pick a top notch Doctor though! A little more money for the job is well worth it. I had mine done in Newport Beach Calif. By a doctor on Fashion Island. About $5,000. at the time.

As for the tummy tuck...I want one too!

2006-10-14 17:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0 0

No, I wouldn't because if your husband won't take you as you are naturally, he's not really that worth it. I understand if you want to get it for YOU but don't get it just for your husband.. that's a bad habit to start. Also, think about the things that could go wrong with plastic surgery... would you be able to handle the consequences?

2006-10-14 17:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Queen B. 1 · 0 0

If you think it will improve your self-esteem enough that it would be worth the pain of the surgery and healing, then I say go for it. But I would get opinions from at least two surgeons before doing ANYTHING surgical. Ask them about their past successes and the worst case scenarios with this type of surgery.

2006-10-14 17:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by abakerchick 3 · 0 0

Personally, I wouldn't let somebody I don't know cut into me with a knife. But I know many women who have had your problem and are glad they went for the operation. It depends on how image conscious you are and how important it is for you. And whatever you decide, the sex life is short. Don't let anything get in the way of your enjoyment now.

2006-10-14 17:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by greenwillowtrie 3 · 0 0

if you can afford it, hell yes. I bet it's affecting your sex life because you are insecure. I'm sure your husband loves you the way you are but, honey, sometimes it's gotta be about us. Do whatever makes you happy and confident. You have to love yourself before anyone else can, right?

2006-10-14 17:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Nina 2 Niña 2 · 0 0

Those are my problem areas too. It's something that I would do if I had ($) the opportunity. Just make sure you do a lot of research regarding the surgery, doctors, pros & cons .

2006-10-14 17:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0 0

YES IF THAT WHAT IT TAKES LIKE DIANE CARROLL SAID ON OPAH AIN'T NOTHING WRONG WITH A LITTLE TUCKING AND LIFTING MY SISTER HAD BOTH AND SHE ONLY 35 AND NOW SHE LOOK DAM GOOD BABY F WHAT ANYBODY SAY DO U

2006-10-14 17:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by sugar 3 · 0 0

Only with your husband??? JUST kiddin' ya!! lol ;o)
If you'll feel a lot better then do it. Life's too short to hate stuff about yourself.

2006-10-14 17:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

totally! it's becoming such a common thing now... just don't find any old surgeon. Be sure to do ur research!!!

2006-10-14 18:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by Cherryluver 2 · 0 0

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