I left to go get smokes earlier today, and a friend (whom my b/f hates) was in town, so we went to the store together, and then did a few of her errands. Once I get home, the b/f is gone and all his stuff is too. He calls and says it is BS that I took off for a few hours when he was here to spend time with me. (We live together) So I called him and told him that it was over between us b/c if he would get mad and pack up and leave without so much as a word over something as petty as me going to the store, then I didn't feel secure enough that he would stick around through major issues in our relationship. December will be our 1 year anniversary together.
2006-10-14 16:59:13 · 15 answers · asked by biggsbabygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The friend is female, for the person below who referred to her as a him. And I think I am very respectful of him, and his feelings. My friend doesn't even come to my house, because she knows that he doesn't like her. We always go somewhere else to meet up and hang out. He smokes as well, so it wasn't because I went to go buy cigarettes. No, I did not call him to tell him I would be gone longer than planned. I actually told him I was just going to get cigarettes and I would be right back. I didn't know I was going to run into my out of town friend, and I think that is why he got so mad. This isn't the first time he has packed up and left me though, I was gone to work, and after work I went to visit my mother at her work. He called my cell phone (which he has since had shut off) 20 times to see when I was coming home in a matter of 30 minutes. Finally I told him I was on my way home. He already had his stuff packed and waiting when I got home, for someone to come get him.
2006-10-15 00:23:32 · update #1
sounds like he was looking for a reason, any reason. so he picked you being gone for a few hours. and if you live together, it is not like he couldn't see you later on that day. but in his defense did you call and tell him that you were going to be gone for a few hours, or did you not call. if you did not call than you are wrong also, granted not so wrong for him to pack up his crap and burn out like he did. not taking sides but sounds like there is more to this story than what you are telling.
2006-10-14 17:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would say he went off the deep end...If he was going to get mad about you being gone for a few hours when you said you were going to be, I'd hate to see how he'd react when you tell him you had to go visit family for a few days?!
I think you're better off with out him. Think of it as a blessing in disguise!!
2006-10-14 17:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that I think you did the right thing. If he gets this mad over something like that think of what will happen later. I was in something close to that. My friend wouldn't come around because of the b/f.
2006-10-14 17:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely much more history and baggage going on than just a walk to the store - for the both of you. Probably better that you both take a breather for a little while.
2006-10-14 17:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u 2 need to grow up..there is too much unnecessary drama here......id understand if he left u cauz this wasnt the 1st time u did this, and if he tried talking over and over about u not seeing this person...but on the second hand, if u kno ure guy doesnt like him then why do this to him and disobey? he respects your wishes so why not respect his and show that u care? this isnt only about u
2006-10-14 17:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he was looking for a reason to move out. Ya dun yourself a favor, and didnt even know it! Way ta go gal!!!
2006-10-14 17:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he hate that you smoked? Sounds like he was looking for an excuse to run and he found it.
2006-10-14 17:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He went off the deep end
2006-10-14 17:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats his side?
There are to parts to a story and he might have a side to!
Think about it,he has feelin's to!
But you might be in the right
But he might be in the right to
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2016-10-19 10:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋