Ya, i cant get a date. I am just a stupid normal regular girl...i dont know what to do..i need desprate help
2006-10-14 16:48:41 · 10 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby, you can get a date. I am so sure that I would bet my lips on it. You are a woman. Woman get dates. Don't give up. If you are serious you need to email me and we can talk. Men like all different sizes and shapes. You are just not marketing yourself correctly. You need some confidence sweetie. I know that you have other wonderful attractive qualities. Where is your self worth? You contact me.............sincerely, mandy
2006-10-14 16:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by cking_pOise... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call yourself stupid first of all. You need to have more self esteem. I know plenty of overweight women who have guys interested in them, so that does not always have to be the problem. If you have a problem with your weight, then why don't you exercise more or eat better? Maybe then, that will pick your self esteem up, and you will not only love yourself, but somebody else will too! Good luck.
Btw, the first answerer is an idiot, who probably couldn't get a date if he paid for one. Pay no mind to him at all.
2006-10-14 23:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by LibraT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm overweight to. I had a hard time finding a man that just didn't want one thing. When i met my husband it was the first time I met someone who seen me for who I was. He is a hottie(he can be seen at www.myspace.com/gripshifter....he's the bass player) and doesn't really like skinny girls. There will be someone that will come along and love you for who you are. It happened to me and it can happen to you..we've been together for 6 years and he's had some woman hit on him that any guy would love to have .
Just keep the faith..you have to love and believe in yourself before anyone else will.
If you need anyone to talk to just contact me.
2006-10-14 23:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by \m/~metalgoddess~\m/ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ...who wants to date a "stupid normal girl"?..no guy does.
If you see yourself as beautiful...others will too. Be the curvy " more too love " girl instead of the "normal girl"
If you want to build your confidence..join a health class like karate. First you will get a good work out...but its a guyfeast too!
Trust me... ( I take it your in your teens) someday you will look back on these days ang laugh. And the guys who wouldnt date you would wish they had...but its your job to make sure they do. A good guy will come along when you least expect it.
2006-10-14 23:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always seem to go for the outward appearance only and it sucks for people who aren't a size 2. I'd say as long as you feel good about yourself,eventually someone will come along who will like you for who you are,and not care that your overweight!
2006-10-14 23:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should never say you are stupid. If you believe in yourself then they will come around. The way you present yourself has a lot to do with it and if you believe what you are saying then that is why nobody will ask you out. You need to do some soul searching.
2006-10-14 23:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Justwondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since lots of big girls have boyfriends, it probably does not have to do with that. Actually people that sound desperate, act desperate & are kind of a turn off. You need to focus on your talents and real interests because people with nothing but stress issues aren't desireable.
2006-10-14 23:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide when you are ready to change. Say its tomorrow, you have to be ready to go into seclusion from all your social distractions and start dieting and exercising intensely. You will notice that you look way better after 3 weeks. If you keep it up, in 6 months you will be slim. Try drinking nothing but water and do lots of running.
2006-10-14 23:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in the morning get up early enough to a jog, and late evening, just do something to pamper yourself , until you feel better about yourself, then and only then is when you will find your mate. baby there is some body out there for all size and shape.
2006-10-14 23:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by queenmidas1014 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you need a friend to start of????e-mail me
2006-10-14 23:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by GMORAM29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋