ok so I've liked this guy for a while now, but I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's always been very nice to me; and he's not nice to every girl. And he makes jokes with me too. On friday, we were doing this exercize in gym with a climbing activity (some team building exercize) and after I was done he was paying specific attention to me, saying things like,"jackie, do you want to go on the balay (I'm spelling this the way it sounds) team? even though they had enough people, and "jackie do you want to be the leader of the balay team. And as we were walking back in, he was talking to me a lot; and I was having trouble with getting my gear off and he said,"oh let me help you with that, it's no problem." so yeah.
what do you guys think? And what are sings that I should be looking for if he likes me or not?
2006-10-14 16:43:46 · 20 answers · asked by Jackie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it gets to the point where we've become pretty good friends, how should I go about asking him out or asking him if he likes me.
eh I'm retarded when it comes to these things
2006-10-14 16:54:24 · update #1
yes
2006-10-14 16:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by ipfreely91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 02:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They way it sounds to me that yeah he does like you. He is paying special attention to you. The only way to really find out is to sit him down and have a real heart to heart conversation with him. Start off like this. You know we have been hanging out for a while now and we get a long great and we have fun together, and my feelings for you have changed I like you for more than a friend. I think your a really great person and I feel like we click real well. After that the conversation should go real well and he should tell you how he feels about you. Good Luck
2006-10-14 23:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Esther V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like some sure signs to me girl! almost 95% of the time, if he's paying attention to you over other girls, he has some interest in you! If you're shy, you can wait and see if he asks you out, but if he doesn't and keeps up the signs ask him out, or just tell him "we should hang out sometime!" and give him your number. That's basically giving him all the tools and confidence he needs to ask you out.
2006-10-14 23:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by renny08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out ask him don't always play hard to get give in a little. From the way it looks he do ike you but one of you have to be willing to take it to another level.
2006-10-14 23:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Shas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way of knowing is asking, and trust me it is hard, but well worth it no matter what he says you will need practice confronting people sooner or later anyway. what grade are you guys in anyway that might be a good way of figuring it out too
2006-10-14 23:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he does but i think u should wait a few more days be for u say or ask him because he might just want a friend
2006-10-14 23:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
soudns like it but only one way to make sure he does, ask him ur self, don't be shy, if he says no, than u know he doesn't like u, but if he says yes, that bam he does, but if not there are alot of men out there in the world
2006-10-14 23:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ledzeppelin324 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep , he likes you. so just smile softly as he talks and act very interested in all he says. you can tell by the look in his eyes , he is just waiting on a reaction from you!
2006-10-14 23:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jackie i'm pretty sure he likes you especially in regards to getitng your equipment off so to speak,
2006-10-14 23:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by chuckkindle@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋