I just hate myself really. I don't like the way I look(though I guess I am attractive). I don't really think I'm good at anything, and the only thing that keeps me going everyday is a girl that a like that likes me but I can't seem to get her to go out with me. Which is another thing. I don't know why she likes me. I don't really know why anybody likes me. I also usually think about things other people usually don't think about.
2006-10-14 16:35:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2006-10-14 16:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be an underlying reason for you to think you hate yourself. Why do you see yourself in a negative way. I don't know how old you are, but perhaps as a child you had been beaten upon as someone who wold not amount to very much, and so you have carried it withing you. There is a positive however, since people are attracted to you, quite obviously they see something good and en-nobbling in you.
The fact that you think things that no one else thinks about, makes you understand that you are an individual, and we all have different opinion on things.
I don't think you are depressed. I think you need to accept you and love you for who you are..
The girl may like you but is not yet ready to start dating. Continue to be a friend and show her you really care. If as you say she likes you, she will go out with you when she's ready.
2006-10-14 16:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would say u have problems with self-image (try to be more positive about urself) and self-confidence (which might explain the dating problem) but if u still find time to be happy each day and engage in happy thoughts and activities then u are not depressed. I would say that since u still have things that kept u going (like that girl) ur not really clinically depressed. As for the girl try a less-direct approach (don’t ask her out maybe instead talk with her, do some stuff with her that doesn’t involve dating)
2006-10-14 16:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by smart son of a bich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard for us to decide if you are depressed... if you commonly think about suicide and death, if you never smile, if you are never happy, if you have difficulty getting out of bed in the morning, if you cut yourself or do other things to harm yourself you are probably depressed... If you are suffering from depression, you should talk to a doctor altho a lot of people dont... You need to know that altho life isnt going the best it could be right now, it will get better, it will always get better... and hey, as for thining you dont look good, everyone thinks that and you know what, maybe you're just going thru your ugly stage, everyone has an ugly stage in their teens and they spend about a year just looking UGLY! everyone goes thru it, its totally normal, and later you will laugh at your ugly year(s)
2006-10-14 16:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it doesnt reach to you trying to hurt/kill yourself or someone else. Do you really get out and do stuff? Do you feel like sleeping a lot or can you not get to sleep? Being rejected or holding things in can be traumatizing to a body. Really, like check yourself out or take a test or something. But usually people who are depressed either dont know it or dont question whether or not they are. Its weird i know but w.e
2006-10-14 16:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to a psychiatrist or someone like a parent that can help you build self-esteem and self-confidence. My roommate use to think that she was ugly and that all the guys use to like me and then she started to tell herself everyday that she was pretty and sexy (while standing in the mirror) and I mean now she is soooo cocky that I can't even stand her. Try telling yourself that and although you might not believe it at first, soon you will start to believe it and you will be one bad motha********
2006-10-14 16:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is it you think about that other's don't think about?? i would talk to someone about how you feel..get some professional help...you can email me if you want to talk more...
2006-10-14 16:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by lylitalianbeauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-14 16:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋