The usual question, i have a friend, and he's been a really close friend for a long time, now i think i'm getting feelings for him. I've thought this for a long time now, and i keep telling myself i don't feel that way, we're just friends, and it finally hit me when he was seeing another girl that i was actually jealous. he has since stopped seeing her, and i am realizing i really have feelings for him. There are just....so many things, not wrong, but off with him. He's very much not my type, we get along great, but i don't ever date guys like him. I'm veryyyyyy confused.
2006-10-14 16:28:30 · 7 answers · asked by renny08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there girl, but I never told my friend how I felt because I thought it would ruin our friendship especially if he didn't think the same way of me, now I'm married to another guy and have been for a long time and I think of what might have been, if only I could go back and tell him. But If you don't tell him, you'll never know. Good luck.
2006-10-14 16:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Windy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have to let him know how you feel about him. If he really like you I believe he will also tell you too. However, if he treat you as an ordinary friends, then in future you may be awkward when you face him.
Sometimes it is better to take the initiative rather than regret later coz opportunity don't knock on your door twice. So be brave and take the initaitive but be mentally prepared at the same time
2006-10-15 06:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I know from experience. There's an awkward transition from friendship to romance, if you guys can survive that it might go well, but chances are you won't be friends after a break up. It's not fun. It's a really huge risk, if you think you guys have a bond strong enough, you might be able to try, but I don't recommend it. The risks outweigh the benefits.
2006-10-14 23:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Artemiseos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't date best friends. I'd rather keep their friendship for life than be involved in something I believe would ruin an incredible thing
2006-10-14 23:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yhis is a touchy situation, you always risk loosing the friendship. for me it worked, i married my best fried of 20 years. you need to weigh out if you think the romance aspect is more important than the friendship, it's tough,
I definately wouldn;t say/do anything while they are wih someone else good luck
2006-10-14 23:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by JoAnne H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can.....usually the best and long lasting couple are the ones whom are best friends to each other. but there's a challenge. if everything woudln't turned out to be what you want them to be, your friendship would be in danger.
personally, i would say go for it! all the best!
2006-10-14 23:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by immortal1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm date him n check it out
2006-10-14 23:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by sindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋