ok heres wat happened...
My boyfriend walked past me about 5 times with out saying hi. He ignored me when i tried to talk to him...So later that i day i broke up with him...but i felt terrible and missed him so we got bak together. Everything was fine (he told me he loved me all the time and that he just wanted to be with me) but then the next day he told me that "its not working". I asked why and he said that i create drama out of small things. I asked him if he waz breakin up wit me and he said "no, im just confused, i need to think" so i said ok...iv e-mailed and texts him but he refuses to reply...What should i do? i am so sorry, i just want him back, i want everything normal agaiin
2006-10-14 16:28:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
It is so hard, but you have to stop bugging him!
If he wants you, he will come to you soon.
Try keeping your attention on something else. Like your school work, sports, or another hobby.
2006-10-14 16:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games with someones emotions.... if you are feeling down or just not with it - tell your bf/gf what's going on with you...communication is key to maintaining harmony in a relationship.
Don't feel put off if he/she won't talk I remember emotions/thoughts usually were all over the place when I was a teen. Sometimes stuff is all jumbled up inside of you and the words just don't come out... those are the days when you or him need to say " I'm On Break" and give each other some space ... that's why it's important to have a balance in the time spent with your bf/gf or just hanging out with friends... no one wants to be smothered in a bf/gf relationship... it's the quality of time, not quantity...that keeps things moving along smoothly....
2006-10-14 16:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I really don't know what this has to do with hair, but you're confused so, here's my take on it. You both must be very young first of all. And if he is wanting you he will come to you...period!
There is a book called "He's just not that into you" One of the things I have found out over the years is to stop making excuses for yourself and your boyfriend. It is what it is and you can't make him love you or want you. Time...girl! Give him his space and time. You're buggin him and he needs to think. Guys go into their stupid little caves and think things out and you can't drag them out for nuttin' honey! If he doesn't contact you within a week or two then you will have your answer! Sorry, but sometimes we women have to learn to not be so "there" for men.Good luck and God bless!
2006-10-14 17:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two don't sound mature enough to be in a relatioship. When a guy says he's "confused" it means he wants out. Let him go and do some growing up. Read some good books about relationships. Learn from your mistakes so when someone else comes along, you will be ready, not carrying baggage.
2006-10-14 16:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww it's cool im a ****** too, nag about little things that on your mind and u have to get them of your chest all else they just pick at u, just say to him this is me im a ****** either deal with it or hit the road u shouldnt have to change for no one, nobody should because all these little faults are what make us all unique and beautiful and if he cant see that than u need to find someone who will, someone who wont mess with your head. But honestly if u do want him back I always found just keep calling his phone over and over again sending constant messages and sooner or later he will get the shits and answer it always works.
2006-10-14 16:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by matheus_the_grey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is go to his house or do everything you can to try and communicate with him and let him know how you feel so you can sort all of this s h i t out and ask him everything why are you ignoring me or why do you tell me that you want to be with me then tell me its not working the other day. Try everything and i mean EVERYTHING. Good luck!
2006-10-14 16:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, i answer ur question happily coz i have familiar problem with u. i want him to be back in my arms too, but u know, i suggest u think it over before text and mail him again, maybe he doesnot deserve it at all, u love him but he doesnot value it, the worst is that he knows that u r worried but refused to reply, dear, try to get over him and enjor ur present life, just take care next time to love a guy who love u as ur loving him.u will be ok and everything will be ok. : )
2006-10-14 17:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by ljjump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are experiencing abandonment, but he's just not that in to you. There's a book by this title you may want to read. Best luck to you finding strength with in you rather than from his validation.
2006-10-14 16:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by peachykeenspeechy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not ready to settle down to only one person. Move on and find yourself someone who really does care for you.
DO NOT contact him again. It makes him feel good to have you chasing after him. Let him chase you if he is wanting to be with you.
2006-10-14 16:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but sometimes its best to let go n he sounds like a jerk to not have his feelings set out. i mean if hes gonna break up he should know
2006-10-14 16:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋