2006-10-14 16:18:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes it is right to always treat someone good no matter how bad they treat you. I know it hurts and we may say lots of things that goes with our anger but take no action or thought to harm another. Love hides and conquers all faults. Always do good to those who mistreats and abuses you.
2006-10-14 16:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sure, Leo and Sags are horrible, horrible partners. The worst ever....geez... I don't understand - you are talking at first about Leo mars (which if I understand correctly has to do with sexuality, motivation, and energy), then about Leo sun, then about Sag mars. By your reasoning, any person with a Leo or Sag placement in their chart would be a horrible partner. This does not make any sense. What is that Leo mars guy's sun sign (approach to life) and venus sign (approach to relationships)? You can't separate out placements and say, oh he seems aloof and ignores me - it must come from his Aquarius mercury. Using astrology like this is only self-serving. To answer your question in some way though, I'm a Leo sun and I admit that my expectations are very high and interest threshold is quite low. It takes a special person to keep me interested. Not every man is able to, and most I've dated weren't able to keep up. Once the interest is gone, either I leave, they leave, or we drift apart. Neither me nor most of my past partners ever felt the need to treat each other badly. The only one that did was a Scorpio sun, and that's just because he was a simply bad guy with a bad attitude, a short fuse, bad upbringing, bad influences, and a drug addict, not because he is a Scorpio sun. Surely, fire SUN signs are generally hotheaded, but that does not necessarily translate into nastiness and aggression.
2016-05-22 03:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly yes to what I think. They are still human with fealings. Sometimes the people who are mean actually need someone to be nice to them the most. Even if they did something wrong in treating you like dirt that dealt with something like stereotypes or whatever. Being good and not stooping to their level can make you feel good that you can act better than what they may have done. But then again I'm not always so sure if my answer is good or if I really think that. Sometimes people are in a bad mood and may regret what they may have said to another.
2006-10-14 16:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Avani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mean should you treat others politely, even if they are rude to you, the answer is absolutely yes. Do not sink to their level. How you treat others tells the world what kind of person you are.
If you mean should maintain a friendship or a close relationship with someone who treats you badly, the answer is no. If it's a family member or someone you work with, you might have to work out some kind of way of dealing with them when it is unavoidable. But politeness does not mean turning yourself into a doormat. Friendship or love must be based on mutual respect.
2006-10-14 16:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by just♪wondering 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When someone treats me like dirt I usually treat them as neutral as possible until they go away. Or I simply ask why this person is acting the way he/she is and take it from there.
2006-10-15 02:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this someone you work with? If it is someone you work with or someone who you have to be nice to because of situations surrounding this person and you then being nice/civial could be the best option. If this is someone you can avoid then do it. If this is a friend then tell them where they can go. No one has the right to treat you like crap.
2006-10-14 16:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by jml210 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither: if someone treats you badly, you should stop associating with them.
Why?
Well, clearly it isn't worth your while to be nice to them, when they don't return it.
But being a bad person yourself accomplishes nothing, either.
Therefore, you should just stop dealing with them entirely.
And, if you're forced to interact with them (such as at the workplace), then tolerate them only as much as you must. Make it clear that you have no wish to talk to them, and that you have nothing by disdain for who and what they are.
2006-10-14 16:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by extton 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it's right because where do you get treating someone badly because they treated u the same way? NOWHERE!
lol, also, if someone treats ya like crap, and u treat them with kindness, they get really pissed off.
2006-10-14 16:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Raven's Shadow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the Bible it says to love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you and say evil things of you falsely. It's amazing what it can do to a relationship/acquaintanceship if you're nice to the person anyhow. Seen it more than once..
2006-10-14 16:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by chocolatelovergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never lower yourself to another's level, but strive to bring them up to yours. Set a good example, regardless of the other person's intentions.
Best Regards,
Holly
2006-10-14 16:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Holly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋