A little over a year ago me and this boy use to go out. I realtionship was skowing fallin apart so i left him for another boy. Later i realized that the boy i left him for wasnt even worth my time. So know i am back talking to my ex- he says he still loves and and that he does wanna get back with me just not now.We talk alot via Yahoo! IM and he comes and picks me up from school on occasion. but i feel like he isnt really there for me! I feel like he really doesnt wanna get back with me. I am 15 (bout ot be16) and he is 18...we dont have sex and i have know himvsince i was 13...does anybody have any advise for me...PLEASE HELP ME...shstrumpet09@yahoo.com
2006-10-14 16:13:55 · 4 answers · asked by Lakay aka Mizz B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love him so much and i dont wanna loose him
2006-10-14 16:17:29 · update #1
Hey Charlee J I will tell you as if you were my little sister. You are tooooooooooooo young to worry if a man really likes you, wants you, or there for you. Believe me when I tell you this MEN ARE EVERYWHERE. They are in every city, town, state, county, country, block, road, ave, street (get the picture). Men are everywhere.
I know you are at the age where you are going through a transition from pre-teen to a young adult. But believe me Ms Lady, LET KNOW ONE (MAN, WOMAN, MOM, DAD, GRANDPARENT, AUNT, UNLCE, COUZIN) WHOMEVER stop you from getting your EDUCATION. Dont wait till you are in your 30's or 40's and say I wish I would have went to school. Get your education, it will be well worth your time in the long run.
I am in my 30's now, and I wish I'd went to school right after high school, because I feel I waisted too much time on friends and boys who were not worth my time. And if I knew then what I know now there would be know way possible I would wait as long as I did to gather my things (life bag) and move (move up in the world).
The friends you think you may have now, KEEP THEM WHERE THEY ARE (WHEREVER THAT MAYBE) AND DO YOU. Learn you, love you, take care of you and know you. Because the more you know about you the better off you will be in the long run.
Don't get me wrong and think I am saying cut off everyone, what I am saying is DO YOU. Don't carry around no DEAD WEIGHT. Let it be exactly what is DEAD.
So I say all that to say, don't forget you left this young man for another man. Owell move on. The only reason you going back to him is because you dont have another man to replace him. If you did you wouldnt be on here.
Move on dont go back to what you knew, go to what you dont know. DO THINGS YOU HAVE NEVER DONE BEFORE. Read the bible and see what your letters from God say you should do. Get the book Holy Bible by Bishop T.D. Jakes. You'll love it.
Ask God for the strength and guidance cause you know you are weak.
So Charlee J email me your big sis whenever you like itzmynz2@yahoo.
Take Care and God Bless
2006-10-14 16:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Florida 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. Apparently they're telling you that he's not the one for you. When you were with him before, I'm sure it was falling apart for a good reason. The fact that the next boy wasn't worth anything doesn't change that. You're meant for someone better than both of them, who won't make you feel like they're not really there for you.
2006-10-14 23:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I think you should stay away from him, mainly because of your age. If you do go back w/him, don't let him push you into sex, because, as a man, I can tell you that he probably will. Next time think things through before you let someone go :)
2006-10-14 23:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one advice: ALL MEN ARE PERVERTED!
2006-10-14 23:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋