why are people so rude? do any of you feel the same?

Question

i dont know if it is just my imagination, but i know that i go out of my way to be polite and kind to everyone. i have had bad service in resturants ect,but i never bully anyone or make rude comments, but it seems nowadays, every one else, does what do you think the problem might be

Answer 1

because the devil is busy and people are self-absorbed and do not care about anyone but themselves you are doing the right thing by being kind and courteous so do not let anyone change you the devil wants us to be hateful so that we will sin against God so we must control ourselves and remember what Jesus would do as long as you are doing right that is enough always remember you cannot control another person so do not worry trust in God

Answer 2

Lack of fear. No one is afraid anymore.

If you say the wrong thing, it's slander. If you look at a woman too long, sexual harassment. Step on the wrong grass, trespassing. Stay in one place too long, it's loitering. Disagree with some one, you're either prejudice, ignorant or hell bound. I have to stare ar the ground and stay on the sidewalk just to make him home.

I have to put myself in an emotional bubble when I step out side to make sure I don't offend anyone. But, every once in a great while, some one will come along a burst my bubble. Complaining is the new world order. If people complain enough, things get done. When you don't like a law, you and a thousand of your closest friends complain about it on national TV. If you don't like a particular store, you walk back and fourth in front of it waving signs and complaining. If you want something done about it now, you complain even louder.

People don't like noise, unless they are the ones making it. So this rudeness is simply a complaint about some perceived problem with you.

Discipline: Lack of. Parents can't discipline their children anymore with out the state getting involved. It's like you're supposed to be able to reason with children. Can't spank them, no, that too brutal and you'll turn them in to Raging Lunatics if you do that. So the children have learned that if they complain enough, to the right people, they get what they want.
I hope this helped, best wished.

Answer 3

its not your imagination, its the world as we know it. if you want to keep your sanity, youll learn to ignore rude people. i know its easier said than done, but you dont know what the rude person is or has gone thru lately, so you mellow out and smile like nothing is bothering you. that will do 1 of 2 things. it will either make someone realize that they are being an ****** because they will think about it later, or it will really bother them because you appear unphased. if a person is a true jerk, they do rude things to get a reaction. it kills them if they dont get one. hope this helps.

Answer 4

People don't care anymore. They are just getting by with what they absolutely need to do. Don't get me wrong, I have met a few hard working people who still go out of their way to provide good service or to be a general good person and help other people out, but most people I run into are indeed quite rude.

Answer 5

Maybe some of them are just fed up,so they take it out on you. Or more likely as I have noticed maybe your one of those people who are just too thin skinned for your own good,seems like everyone is so easily offended these days it's pathetic. I'm afraid it seems no one has a spine anymore,don't get your daily hug and it's "whoa is me" Was that rude I'm sorry.

Answer 6

Everyone has those bad days when they think everyone is mean to them. And most of the time, people ARE rude to them. But that may be just because that person is also having a bad day. Try not to take it offensively.

Answer 7

lol, people, a lot of the time, act rude to get attention. especially if the person is rude around friends. oh yea, that really gives the person a laugh. also, could just be how they were brought up. soooooooo many different answers. sad, i know.

Answer 8

Those certain different people have different reasons. It might just be a bad day, something not in their favor happened, or whatever-lots of reasons. Some people might just hate their jobs or just act that way. I think the rudeness rubbs off on others sometimes.

Answer 9

It starts in the home.Mommy and Daddy act like that around them. Matters are learn at home. Parents don't bother raising their children anymore. They put them in Day care,and when the children are home, they are placed in front of the T.V. until bed time. What do you want from the type of parenting that is going on these days?

Answer 10

Life is so fast paced these days and people are completely self absorbed. They are self serving and yes, quite frankly, they are rude. It is a very sad testament to the times we are living in.