or date him pleaseeeeeeeeee help me out
2006-10-14 16:01:57 · 15 answers · asked by cbbhoope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh oh.... u naughty girl! Dating one guy and thinking about hooking up with another.
2006-10-14 16:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is really tough to decide between two interests. There is additional information that would help give a better answer though. Do you love your boyfriend? How long have you been together? How old are you... meaning are you talking about a teenage romance, or potential husband(s)? Have you already started something with this new fella, or is it just a spark?
Regardless.
Being honest with everyone involved here is the best yet the most difficult option. Letting your current boyfriend now you are compelled to this new man, and letting your new man know (assuming he doesn't already) you have a boyfriend that you like and also that you are telling your boyfried about him. This will likely hurt, at least, your boyfriend; and possibly scare this new guy. But being honest with both will help show you where their hearts are truly at.
Tread carefully here though, you may end up prompting a conflict between them. To help fend off a fight, make it clear to them both that you care about them, and you are making *your* decision.
Good luck.
2006-10-14 23:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by plebeian777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u and ya bf are cool then y spoil it for someone or something that ur not sure is going to work? if things are not working out with u and ya man then move on.
and don't pick arguments with him for no reason.
another thing is we can't always get what we want. as u get older u will know what i mean.
2006-10-14 23:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by TamLuv2406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU JUST CAN'T KEEP GETTING A BOYFRIEND AND THEN DUMPING THEM B/C YOU HAVE MET SOMEONE ELSE, THAT IS JUST NOT RIGHT. THINK ABOUT IT IF THE SHOES WERE ON THE OTHER FEET. WOULD YOU WANT HIM TO DUMP YOU B/C HE MET SOMEONE ELSE. MEN OR YOUNG MEN AREN'T TOYS THAT YOU CAN JUST GET RID OF WHEN EVER YOU MEET SOMEONE ELSE.
2006-10-14 23:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. But I would ride this first boyfriend out first, so as not to hurt his feelings and make him feel used or something.
2006-10-14 23:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be other guys until you're committed to one. have a good time. you don't have to dump the first one. date both of them. i don't mean having sex with both, i mean date. if you are having sex with the first one and you wish to the other one. than you are just fickeled (confused)
2006-10-14 23:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start something new without ending what you already have. Give this a little time and you'll realize what you need to do.
2006-10-14 23:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by James L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Which one do you like the most, and see if it is just a lust thing or if you really love one of them and then choose
2006-10-14 23:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date the one you want to date. That is why they call it dating.
2006-10-14 23:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have a boyfriend that doesnot mean you can not have friends that are boys see if you like him. if it starts to becomes
serios then dump your bf.
2006-10-14 23:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by MASQUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which ever one u can see ur future,and who will make u most happy,and who is serious and not on games.who will make u his wife,and be a great father for ur future kids,don't get fooled,be careful and good luck!
2006-10-14 23:07:26 · answer #11 · answered by lovegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋